Her Sister-In-Law’s Best Friend Tried To Sleep With Her Husband So She Banned The Friend From Her House But Now She’s Telling The Internet She May Have Ruined Everything
A 23-year-old woman is married to her 24-year-old husband, and it used to just be the two of them under one roof.
Her husband has a sister who is one year older than him, and not only is he super close to his sister; she is too. She really feels her sister-in-law is more like an actual sister to her at this point.
Anyway, her sister-in-law was engaged up until not that long ago.
Unfortunately, her sister-in-law’s fiancé called the wedding off at the very last minute, and since her sister-in-law was then left without a home, they let her live with them.
Her sister-in-law frequently has her friends over to the house, and that wasn’t an issue for her at first, but then she started having problems with her sister’s 24-year-old friend.
This friend pretty much stays in her sister-in-law’s bedroom and won’t come out, unless her husband is around.
“I have noticed though, that when my husband is out and she comes out of the attic, she would wear big hoodies and long baggy pants, but as soon as my husband comes back she’ll go back up to the attic and come back wearing booty shorts and a basically transparent shirt which shows everything,” she explained.
“I thought I was overreacting and didn’t do anything about it, but the other day my husband came to me shaking.”
“When I asked him what was wrong he basically cried to me that he felt extremely uncomfortable and angry. When I asked for a reason he said that every time SILs friend comes over she literally flirts none stop with him when no one is around.”
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“Once apparently she even took off her pants and when he told her not to she said that she just needed some air.”
Her sister-in-law’s friend has also tried to hold her husband’s hand.
She sat down with her husband and had a discussion about this friend’s behavior, and they decided that this friend was going to be banned from their house.
She shared this news with her sister-in-law, who absolutely lost it. Her sister-in-law accused her husband of being attracted to her friend, before accusing both of them of being sexist.
She’s worried that she has destroyed the relationship she had with her sister-in-law, and she feels upset about banning the friend in the first place because that woman was a huge part of her sister-in-law’s life.
Her sister-in-law’s friend also did a lot to help her through the difficult parts of her life that popped up recently, and she’s concerned that she took away that system of support.
Here’s what the internet had to say.
“Yeah, no means no, is universal.”
“Your husband is being sexually harassed in his own home, which is horrifically damaging to not have a safe space. Tell SIL to hit the road if she’s upset.”
“This is not some odd case of misread signals. Her weird…married man hunting friend is not worth your husband’s mental health.”
“The lunatic TOOK her PANTS off and exposed herself, she’s a creep and deserves to be ostracized.”
“…I think SIL is taking major advantage here. I’m not sure what the financial arrangement is, but I would not presume if I was living in another couple’s home that I would be allowed to have sleepovers with my friends.”
“I’ve had friends sleepover when I had a whole apartment or house to myself, but just a room? No thanks, that would make me feel like back in high school.”
“Not to mention awkward for the other people in the house for the pure reason that now you have strangers in common areas of your home.”
“Me and my partner like our private life too much to deal with that and we wouldn’t want this person around no matter how conservative her outfits were.”
“The sexual harassment of her own brother takes the cake though, and the sister turns it around and victim blames him by saying he’s just uncomfortable with it because he’s attracted to her friend. Nope, she’d be lucky if she got to stick around after making those comments.”
“…You are second-guessing yourself and not defending your damn husband. She’s trying to sexually assault him and you are wondering if you are being sexist for not wanting her in your house.”
“Grow a backbone and kick these girls to the curb.”
You can read the rest of what the internet had to say to her here.
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