His Fiancée Announced Her Pregnancy At A Family Party To Celebrate A Surgery And He’s Telling The Internet He Made Her Go Home By Herself
A 30-year-old man has a 26-year-old fiancée, and they were supposed to have their wedding this upcoming spring, however, she just learned she is pregnant which might affect their wedding plans.
None of their families knew that they are expecting.
Anyway, his dad was on a train several evenings ago when he started having chest pain. As soon as his dad arrived home, his mom brought him to an Emergency Room.
While at the hospital, doctors informed his dad that he was going to need to get bypass surgery. His mom told the whole family what was happening, and many of their family members rushed to his mom and dad’s house to be there for them.
His dad just had the surgery, and it all went well.
“We went over for dinner to celebrate my father’s successful surgery,” he explained. “The entire conversation was about my father and making sure my mother was going to be okay.”
“During the dinner, my fiancée stands up and announces we were expecting. My sister stood up from the table and told fiancée she was out of line.”
His sister also called his fiancée a pretty awful and offensive name.
“Everyone was glaring at my fiancée and I looked over at her and said I think it’s best if you leave,” he said.
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“She calls an uber and goes back to our apartment. I went home and saw my fiance packing a suitcase. She starts yelling at me that I should have left with her and will be staying with her parents.”
Since all this went down, his fiancée did go leave to be with her parents, and her parents have been calling and texting him to talk about what occurred.
Here’s what the internet had to say.
“Ok, so this post is pretty light on details but I think it’s reasonable that your fiance was thinking “hey, since we’re celebrating a successful surgery and recovery let’s add another happy thing to the day.” Yes, that should’ve been discussed with you beforehand.”
“But your sister was also WAY out of line. Unless there’s something here that’s missing you should’ve stuck up for your fiancée because your sister was absolutely wrong.”
“Tensions are high and everyone is on edge after a potentially deadly health emergency, and she believed NOW is the best time to drop more life-changing news?”
“Is she trying to cause someone else to suffer a cardiac event?”
“If Dad’s issues were resolved, the pregnancy could be a bit of happy news…something to recover and live for, so to speak…especially if it’s a first grandchild.”
“But…if the conversation was not resolved, or Dad is under orders to avoid excitement, OR this news might be upsetting to family given that no wedding has taken place (assuming they might be more traditional)…then a very asshole thing to do.”
“What exactly did the family take offense to? And is there some history here? (Feels like it.)”
“Your fiancee should not have made any announcements without checking first and it might be a wee bit premature given that a miscarriage could cause further upset in the family.”
“Your fiancée can’t read a room. Your sister can’t talk like an adult. You shouldn’t make her leave alone, you go with her and come up with a gameplan for healing, not leave her alone to stew in shame.”
“He could have left with her to talk about it in private or even just try to de-escalate things with his sister.”
“Instead, he basically told her that she doesn’t belong with his family. I’d be packing my bags too. It sucks that she’s saddled with his baby now.”
You can read the rest of what the internet had to say here.
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