Chip Chick
“But he did say that Thomas and my sister’s marriage was not going to work because when Thomas met my sister she was already engaged but she didn’t get with him till she broke things off with her ex who turned into an abusive stalker and harrassed my sister to the point of getting an RO.”
“My husband says Thomas’s illness and every issue they had to deal with was some sort of “karma” for cheating which is wrong and unacceptable. He once told Thomas this to his face while Thomas was out of the hospital.”
“Also while Thomas was struggling with illness my husband complained about me helping my sister and offering care for the children along with other issues which made his relationship with my sister and Thomas even worse, so all that makes me think he said what he said to be malicious and I agreed and sided with my sister and family.”
Here’s what the internet had to say.
“No. He’s not an idiot. From what I gather, this was intentional. He’s apparently never liked this BIL and I wouldn’t be surprised if he was lying about it not being malicious.”
“No one “accidentally” says stuff like that to a child and even then no one who really didn’t mean it wouldn’t be doubling down after hearing about exactly how hurt and traumatized his victims were.”
“That sort of malice only comes from someone intending to do harm.”
“At first I thought: okay he messed up, but it was a genuine mistake, we all make mistakes and sometimes misunderstand how to act socially.”
“Then we came to the part where he’s making himself into a victim. Does he often do this in arguments? Turn things after he’s done wrong, so that you end up apologizing?”
