This Man Says He’s The Reason His Ex-Girlfriend Is Currently In A Mental Hospital And He’s Asking The Internet If It’s Ok For Him To Still Be Furious With Her
A man says that he dated his ex-girlfriend for 4 years before calling things off for a pretty good reason. Or rather, he had several reasons behind ending things that make a lot of sense.
“The entire time she was very manipulative and cruel,” he explained. “She was physically, mentally, and emotionally abusive.”
“Every single time I tried to leave her she would threaten to harm herself. She ruined countless friendships of mine.”
“She once called child services on a friend simply because we were texting and talking about a video game, she also hacked my Facebook and pretended to be me and told several female friends really screwed up things.”
“She has crashed my brand new car on purpose simply because I didn’t buy her one. She also cheated on me several times.”
He continued to say that all of that is really just a tiny slice of the terrible things she did to him over the years that they were together.
At some point during their relationship, he did learn that she was diagnosed with multiple severe mental health issues, including PTSD, Bipolar disorder, and Schizophrenia.
Despite all this, he did his very best to be sympathetic towards her and he did his best to forgive and forget when it came down to the awful things she put him through.
However, they split up anyway last year, and he maintained that he had no problem being in her life as a friend, but romantically, they were over.
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He felt badly exiting her life entirely since she had no family members or friends left in her life because of her behavior.
After they ended things, she kept doing bad things to him, and he kept trying to be there for her.
Earlier this year, he attempted to put himself out there again, and he ended up meeting a wonderful woman through Hinge.
He really got on well with this woman instantly, and they had a lot of shared interests. He fell hard for her too, but not long into their relationship, this woman started to get tormenting text messages from someone posing as him.
Then, this woman had someone come to her home in the middle of the night and bang on her door.
She was horrified and ghosted him entirely. She blocked him in every way, shape, and form, and she even called the police on him, since she genuinely believed the texts and the late-night banging on her door were all coming from him.
He was stunned, and he was hurt that she exited his life so quickly. He was completely heartbroken, and he had no way of reaching out to her to ask what happened.
Over this past summer, two months after this all went down, his ex told him it had all been her. She was behind the texts, and the banging on his date’s door.
He was livid to find out the truth, and he made it clear he would never talk to her again.
One week after that, he got a phone call from a hospital that revealed to him she had tried to take her own life. She was then placed in a mental hospital, where she has been for 2 months.
“Ever since then I have been receiving a call from the mental hospital about once a week now,” he said.
“I never answer. Part of me feels really guilty, but the other part is still furious.”
Here’s what the internet had to say.
“You didn’t do anything but finally do what’s best for you (and eventually hopefully for her cos it sounds like she’s finally getting help she desperately needed, and it is definitely not your fault she hurt herself.) Her continued contact with you it sounds like just increased her issues, she definitely shouldn’t have been in a relationship until she got some help and you have EVERY right to be angry that she messed with your future relationships.”
“Mental illness is the reason for her behaviour but it is not an excuse for it, and she treated you horribly.”
“I will shout this from the rooftops every day, if needs be: You are NOT responsible for the mental health of others.”
“I had an ex who threatened to kill herself every time I left her, trapping me. This happened three times until she cheated on me and dumped me.”
“Some people are just twisted and need serious help that a partner simply cannot give, and your ex is an extreme example of this.”
“I’m also sorry for your lost love. It’s such a shame that happened, but I’d maybe set up new social media and email accounts, change numbers, and start over if viable because she clearly has some way of accessing your accounts.”
“I’d also get a new phone, if you haven’t already, as she may well have installed some kind of screen mirroring app on your phone, which may be how she got the details of that lady to harass her.”
“The fact that she still trying to stalk you from the mental facility shows how unwell she is. You are not responsible for any of this.”
“If I were you I would call the mental facility and let them you are being harassed by one of their patients and ask them to stop her from calling you.”
“She was dragging you down and you owed it to yourself to cut her loose. You’d been there for her for years and she caused you nothing but grief in return.”
“You owed her nothing, and aren’t at fault for putting your own interests first and foremost. You even continued to be there for her after you split up.”
You can read the rest of the advice the internet had for him here.
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