His Girlfriend Secretly Moved Herself Into His Apartment While He Was Away On A Work Trip
A 23-year-old man is currently dating a 21-year-old woman, and they have been together for a year and a half now.
Since he has been with his girlfriend, he’s lived in two different apartments, but he never invited his girlfriend to move in with him for two reasons.
First of all, he really doesn’t believe in living together until you have come to know someone well enough, which he doesn’t feel has happened yet.
His second issue with living with his girlfriend is that she is not motivated in the least. She quit college, doesn’t have a job, and doesn’t know what she wants to do with her life.
Meanwhile, he works insane hours and runs his own company.
“I have felt resentful in the past and currently over the fact that she has no desire to get a job or help me out with paying for things when I am continually going through so much stress just to keep my business afloat during covid,” he explained.
Recently, he went to another country on a trip for work, and while he was gone, he asked his girlfriend to come to his place to water his plants.
He also thought that since she lives with her parents, it would give her a bit of time away from her mom and dad.
His girlfriend was excited to have a bit of space for her family and watch his plants, and he left for his trip not thinking anything of it.
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“I came back to my apartment two weeks later, noticing it had been filled with the majority of her belongings and a lot of my apartment reorganized,” he said.
“There was zero conversation about this happening. I told her this isn’t right and that I want to break up due to the lack of respect to not even ask or communicate with me.”
That’s right, his girlfriend secretly moved right into his apartment while he was away on his work trip.
“I told her that I enjoy my private space and I need it in order to keep up with running my business right now,” he continued.
“Additionally, told her I feel resentful over the fact she expects me to devote so much time and energy to the relationship when she’s around yet I am the only one capable and trying to support paying the bills for the necessities in life (Shelter, Food, etc).”
“She tries to justify her position by saying that she helps me clean and buys me little things for the apartment.”
He feels so upset by what his girlfriend did, and he’s concerned this is going to detract from his work.
He did talk to his parents about what happened, and they strongly believe that he should not be paying to support his girlfriend when she can’t even get out of her own way or help him out.
His parents are concerned it’s too much for him to work the way that he does and have to provide for his girlfriend.
They also think it’s going to drain him mentally as well as financially.
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