Her Boyfriend Had A One Night Stand And That Woman Gave Birth To Her Boyfriend’s Baby Last Week
A 38-year-old woman is dating her 36-year-old boyfriend, and she’s known him for 10 years. They started out as friends, and her boyfriend was previously married.
After her boyfriend got a divorce from his wife, they started to become more than friends and they moved in together two years ago.
The day that they moved in together, her boyfriend called her very early that morning and told her that he needed to speak with her.
“He said that about a month prior he had a one-night stand he met on a website (I believe he said it was on a local site that is similar in nature to Craigslist on a local level),” she explained.
“He didn’t know her, had never met her prior to that, had no feelings for her. He found out a couple of nights prior to this phone call to me that she was pregnant (she contacted him via his phone number they used to meet up) and he had been trying to figure out what to do since but decided that he couldn’t let me move in without telling me.”
“Honestly, it felt like it was an unreal, terrible joke but he was dead serious. I had already put down a ton of money on a truck and I knew I loved him to proceed with the move.”
“I figured people have dealt with illegitimate children before, maybe I’ll figure it out. Worst case scenario, it wouldn’t work and I would move out.”
Since that day, she and her boyfriend have discussed the baby a lot. She knew it would be a challenge to work through this, but she was so in love with her boyfriend she didn’t want to leave him over this.
He has spoken infrequently to the woman he had a one-night stand with who is pregnant, and he plans on being part of the baby’s life.
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The baby was born around a week ago, and her boyfriend ended up taking his baby mama home from the hospital with the baby since she couldn’t find someone else to drive her.
Fast forward to 8 months later when she had the baby just before Christmas. She stayed in the hospital until 2 days after Christmas.
She was ok with that, but when her boyfriend told her yesterday evening that he needed to change his work shift in order to take his baby mama and baby to a doctor’s appointment, she freaked out and started getting worried.
“He also mentioned in the conversation that he kinda looked forward to it because he could see the baby without having to spend time at her apartment which tells me that he isn’t comfortable being at her place,” she said.
“Since this morning he has said that she/the baby needs to go back for another appointment in a week. He has also told me that he has offered to give her rides to appointments if she asks.”
“At this point, I am feeling like the third wheel. I want to tell him that I am not comfortable with him seeing her (which if he sees the baby, he has to see her) at all.”
She doesn’t want to prevent her boyfriend from seeing his child, but she is very concerned about her boyfriend spending time with his baby mama.
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“It might be silly but what if they become intimate?” she wondered. “What if they fall in love? What if… what if… what if…. basically all of my worst fears are coming back to me.”
“Additionally, every time he has contact with her it’s just a fresh reminder of this waking nightmare that I just want to go away but I’m trying my damnedest to be “okay” with it.”
“I don’t want to delude myself into thinking this is alright if it’s not. We’re not married, and while it will suck hardcore, I can still leave and move on with my life.”
“I still love him and I’ve forgiven him for his initial transgression. I just don’t know how to deal with this.”
She’s left feeling wildly jealous and insecure, and she’s not sure if it’s time to throw the towel in on this relationship.
How would you feel in this situation?
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