His Gilfriend’s Sister Cheated On His Friend, And Now That She’s Marrying The Other Guy He’s Refusing To Go To The Wedding

How do you tell your long-term girlfriend you refuse to go to her sister’s wedding? Well, it’s undoubtedly complicated for this guy and his girlfriend Jenn, who have been together for three and a half years.

Jenn’s sister, Kelly, used to be married to his friend, Dylan, which is how he and Jenn first met. But only a year ago, Jenn left Dylan for someone else.

She moved out in the middle of the night and broke Dylan’s heart.

This guy is now struggling less than a year later because Kelly is getting married to the man she left Dylan for.

So, he’s trying to set a boundary with his girlfriend because he doesn’t think he belongs at Kelly’s second wedding. “I told her that I believe only people who support a wedding should be in attendance.”

It makes sense that your wedding should only include folks who are excited about your future with your spouse, rather than someone connected to the life you left behind with someone else.

But Kelly and Jenn’s family is desperate to have him at the wedding, and her fianceé even called to ask if he’d be an usher.

Of course, one person’s presence shouldn’t make or break a wedding, and not appearing in family photos from one event shouldn’t be a relationship’s breaking point.

But the family keeps insisting that he needs to be there because it would “make everyone happy.”

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Then he was invited on a camping trip with Dylan and their other friends, which just happened to be on the weekend of Kelly’s wedding.

Dylan would need a lot of love and support while he processed his ex moving on so quickly, so of course, his friend agreed to go.

He didn’t think twice about missing the wedding since he’d already begged off attending. But his girlfriend wouldn’t give up and looped her mom in to reprimand him for his choice.

According to his post, they were both “saying things about how that isn’t how you treat family.” But then, he responded, “pretty sure Dylan was family too and I saw how that worked out for him.”

Another theory is that the family also doubts Kelly’s life choices, but they’re trying to use Jenn’s boyfriend to validate her new marriage.

Reddit users gave their hot takes in the comments, and most thought this guy should break up with Jenn because she doesn’t see anything wrong with her sister’s behavior. 

One wrote that if Jenn breaks up with him because he won’t go to the wedding, it’s for the best since she was clearly manipulating him and condones cheating. Another person agreed, writing, “I’d peace out on this family so fast … I cannot imagine a potential lifetime of this toxicity and drama.”

You can read the original post on Reddit here.

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