His Younger Sister Is Jealous Of The Attention His Fiancée Is Getting For Wedding Planning And He Told His Mom If She Doesn’t Stop Buying His Sister Things To Make Her Feel Better She’s Not Coming To The Wedding

A man is getting married soon, and his 19-year-old sister is becoming super jealous of the attention that his fiancée is getting for wedding planning.
His sister is trying to upstage and compete with his fiancée, and things are getting out of hand now.
“This all started when I proposed,” he explained. “I saved for a while because my fiancée is a gorgeous girl and I wanted the ring to be really special.”
“When we first saw my mom, she was showing it off and my sister got quiet, and then left the room for a while.”
“She didn’t compliment it or say congratulations. At the next gathering with extended family, the ring got a lot of attention and my sister seemed sad.”
“My mom ended up buying her a diamond bracelet with some sapphires. When I commented my mom said it just seemed fair because she has my stepdad to buy her jewelry, my fiancée has me, and my sister has no one.”
The next big issue was when his fiancée invited his mom and sister to shop for a wedding dress with her.
The entire time, his sister complained about not feeling well and she kept putting her head down on their mom and sulking.
Later on, his fiancée called his mom to chat about the wedding colors with her, and his mom revealed that she already bought a dress for his sister since she could not wait.

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His mom bought his sister this very elaborate, beaded lavender-colored gown that cost his mom an arm and a leg.
“At the bridal shower my sister was sulky again and refused to eat, so my mom took her and left to buy her frozen yogurt because she was “dizzy,” he said.
“The final straw was the bachelorette party. My sister and mom were invited to the dinner before the big party and my sister wanted a $200 lobster.”
His mom told his mother-in-law that she would be happy to pay for the lobster for his sister, and then the bridesmaids started teasing his sister about how she’s going to have to help his fiancée at the wedding.
His mom was very rude to the bridesmaids after that, and his sister got angry too. “My sister ended up yelling that it is dumb that we are having so many parties (engagement, shower, bachelorette, and wedding, so pretty standard I think),” he continued.
“She said we don’t need all of those parties and it is just an excuse for attention. My fiancée was hurt and shocked.”
Another thing that really upset him is that he just learned that his mom threw his sister a party the weekend after his fiancée’s bachelorette party.
“She actually rented a beach house for my sister and her friends and paid for hair and makeup,” he wrote.

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He thought this was just insane, so he called his mom to confront her and they got into quite an argument.
He accused his mom of enabling his sister’s “toxic jealousy” and he said that if she continues to buy his sister things, she’s not going to be invited to their wedding at all.
His mom didn’t really fight back on the call, but later on, she sent him a text message lacing into him about how she has done so much for him, and nobody ever did the same for her.
She continued to say to him that she has worked very hard for the money that she has and she will spend it however she wants.
He never replied back to that, and he’s upset that his mom thinks what she is doing is normal, especially since his sister is experiencing a bad breakup.
How would you handle this?
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