She Went On A First Date With A Guy And Things Got Really Serious Pretty Quickly So She’s Not Sure If She Should Go On A Second Date With Him

Going on a first date is often as terrifying as it is exciting. Picking out the perfect outfit or coming up with conversation starters can feel like daunting tasks.
But, this twenty-year-old woman’s first date progressed way beyond just small talk and left her feeling puzzled.
She had been talking to her date for a couple of months before they finally went out together. The woman had just gotten out of a relationship, so she wanted to take things slow.
Plus, just talking to someone for so long is not super unusual with today’s technology. The buildup of anticipation could be what gave her date the wrong message, though.
“Probably ten minutes after arriving and getting a table, he was already playing with my hair,” the woman explained.
“About five minutes later, he kissed me. I felt like it was way too soon.”
The woman did want to kiss him back. But, she understandably wanted to get to know him more first. As the date went on, the woman said he already looked head over heels.
“He was looking at me with those ‘in love’ eyes, constantly complimenting me, and giving me random forehead kisses,” the woman said.
While this may be normal for couples, the woman felt extremely awkward since this was simply their first date.

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The man also told his mother and sister about the woman. While he could have just mentioned that he was going out, this raised a red flag for the woman.
How serious did he think they were before even going on a date?
Still, the woman had a lovely time. She enjoyed the restaurant the man chose, and the pair went on a classic beach walk after dinner.
“I could tell he is very kind, smart, and loves animals like I do. He is also very good-looking and a great kisser, too,” the woman recalled.
She would have felt very confident moving forward with a second date if it had not felt like “too much, too soon.”
So now, the woman is left wondering if his behavior was a red flag or if she just is not used to this kind of fast-paced dating.
“Maybe I’m just not into PDA. I’m not sure what it is,” the woman wondered, “I’m conflicted because I like him a lot, but I’m not in love yet, and he looks like he is.”
She is also worried about leading this man on.
“I don’t want to play with his feelings, so I don’t know if I should continue seeing him and wait to see if I fall in love too or just don’t accept the second date and move on,” the woman explained.
It is hard to come out of a long-term relationship and begin dating again.
Do you think the woman was just out of her element or was the man moving way too fast? If you were in this woman’s shoes, what would you do?
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