She Went Through Her Boyfriend’s Phone And Discovered That He Was Talking To Other Women: He Even Told His Ex He Wanted To Rip A Dress Off Of Her

A 24-year-old woman has been seeing her 37-year-old boyfriend for the last several months, and she knows their relationship recently has not been good at all.

Things were so bad she decided to break up with her boyfriend, though 2 weeks later they reconciled.

Post-breakup, everything got a lot better. Her boyfriend was in a better mood and acting the way he had when they first started dating.

He was also being very attentive to her and he also made plans for them to go out and such every single day, so he was really showing what seemed like an initiative to do things differently.

Although their relationship seemed to be looking up, something was telling her that things were not quite right with her boyfriend.

Her boyfriend continuously took his phone to the bathroom to use, and it never occurred to her that maybe he was doing something secretive until now.

She thought she should take a peek at what he was doing on his phone without him knowing, so when he was showering the other morning, she did just that.

First, she took a look at his Whatsapp conversations and she could see that her boyfriend had been talking to his ex just a few days ago.

“He was texting her and offering her to join him on his upcoming trip abroad and then she had sent him her picture in some hot dress and he was like ‘I’d gladly rip that off you” and so on,” she explained.

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“Then I checked his IG and found that some girl has offered to meet up at one ski resort where he was going without me because I couldn’t join him because of work and he had agreed to meet up!”

“Then I checked another conversation and he was replying to some woman’s hot photo saying that she looks hot.”

“I was shocked. I told him it’s all over and just left. He had tried to fool me and say that he was drunk or something while he was doing it but of course, I didn’t believe it.

She is absolutely certain that she can not forgive her boyfriend for emotionally cheating on her, but she’s wondering if you can call these conversations cheating since her boyfriend didn’t do anything physical with these other women.

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Her boyfriend also tried to tell her that he had no intention of meeting up with any of them and he insisted that he has never cheated on her before.

“Not sure how he defines cheating but for me emotional cheating is as disgusting as a physical one,” she continued.

“I feel devastated since I would have never imagined him cheating as we had discussed it before and I made it clear that I would never tolerate that and he also said that’s something he would never ever do.”

What would you do if you ever found yourself in the same situation?

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