He’s Convinced His College Girlfriend Is Bullying Her Roommate And He Hates Her Behavior
A 20-year-old man currently is dating his 19-year-old girlfriend who is in college and living in an apartment on campus with several roommates.
A semester ago, his girlfriend ended up getting brand new roommates, and although she does get on great with 2 of the girls she lives with, the 3rd girl his girlfriend does not like at all.
He does understand that this one roommate of his girlfriend is very irritating; for example, she will not pay for any of the food in the apartment unless the other girls insist on it, she won’t cook any food for them, and she coughs all over the place.
“She’s pretty shy too and doesn’t join them when they go out most of the time and has no interest in working out with them,” he explained about the third roommate.
“I can see why this would frustrate my GF and her other roommates. Sometimes she annoys me when I’m over there, but it’s nothing serious and I think it’s important to still be decent and respectful.”
Pretty much every time he’s at his girlfriend’s apartment, he’s the only person that bothers to interact with this third roommate.
Not long into his girlfriend living with her new roomies, the one that his girlfriend has an issue with approached the RA to get some help resolving the issues between her and his girlfriend.
Although he thinks his girlfriend’s roommate could have tried to do something else initially to repair their relationship, he is sympathetic to the roommate.
His girlfriend got extremely mad at her roommate, and although she and her roommate sat down with the RA, the whole thing was bad.
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“She told me that she told her RA “literally everything my roommate does pisses me off” and said that in front of the roommate,” he said.
“It infuriates me that the person I am dating would say something like that to another person. Every day she complains about her roommate and never has anything nice to say about her.”
“I know there’s almost always room mate tension bc I’ve had plenty myself, but this seems like it’s on another level.”
Since this first meeting that his girlfriend had with her roommate and the RA, there has been a second meeting, and that meeting was awful as well.
“Frankly I hate that the person I am with is behaving like this,” he continued. “I’ve talked to her about it, but she doesn’t seem to be improving.”
He’s convinced that his girlfriend is bullying her roommate, and he thinks it’s a huge deal, though he isn’t positive if he’s blowing things out of proportion.
How can he fix this?
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