She Told Her Best Guy Friend And His Fiancée That She Was Going To Wear White To Their Wedding: Then She Got Uninvited
A 26-year-old woman has a best guy friend a year older than her that she has been close to since she was just a child.
Growing up, they were attached at the hip, and their moms and dads would tease them about winding up married when they grew up.
As they got older and entered adulthood, she and her best friend would say that if they ended up 30 and alone, they certainly would get married.
Well, now her best friend is tying the knot, and not to her. 5 years ago her best friend met his fiancée, and he put a quick end to all of their inside jokes about marriage.
“…He stopped joking around with me like that and I was hurt and whenever I used these jokes he’d tell me to stop it,” she explained.
“This hurt my feelings a lot because our friendship and our inside jokes suddenly stopped once he got a GF.”
“Tbh his fiancée never seemed to like me and there are many examples of her being jealous of me.”
She felt that her best friend “changed” after he began dating his now-fiancée, and she still attempted to make their marriage jokes, yet he would always put an end to them.
Around 4 weeks ago, her best friend held a surprise engagement party, and even though their mutual friends got invited to the party, she wasn’t and she couldn’t understand why.
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She confronted her best friend and let him know that she was furious that he never consulted with her about his engagement, or the ring he bought, or the party he threw.
Her best friend pushed back, insisting none of this had anything to do with her and that he wasn’t obligated to make her happy.
She thought this was rude of him to do to her, and she was upset afterward.
“I’ve tried time and time again to prove that the jokes we had were simply jokes and nothing more but they wouldn’t care,” she said.
“One time I met them after their engagement party at my BFF’s bday party and I jokingly said to his fiancée “oh look at you, you’re so gorgeous that you managed to steal my future husband and made him yours, wouldn’t mind if I wore white to the wedding so I can at least be a bit happy too?”
“I was saying all that in a sarcastic joking manner but the bride and her parents got offended and my BFF was mad at me.”
She downplayed it all as a joke and mentioned she would be wearing her emerald-colored dress, but the damage was already done.
Her best friend’s fiancée put two and two together; that emerald dress she mentioned was in fact a dress her best friend purchased for her, and once his fiancée noticed that detail she lost it.
Her best friend insisted she needed to leave his birthday party right then and there before saying they could chat later.
She found out after that party that she was no longer invited to her best friend’s wedding.
“My BFF said the decision was his and his fiancée’s,” she continued. “But I’m almost certain the decision was not his but only the bride’s and her parents since they’re paying and my BFF can’t argue with that.”
Friends at the party who overheard her comment about wearing white to the wedding think that she was out of line and that she deserves to get uninvited, though she refuses to believe this.
Do you think she got what she deserved?
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