Chip Chick
He decided to confront the maid of honor first over text, and she straight-up lied to him about the awful things that everyone had said about his fiancée.
After hearing nothing from his best man, he then texted him, only to find that his best man didn’t have his back either.
His best man attempted to say that they all were just concerned for him, before claiming to be worried that his fiancée would try to baby trap him.
“I stood up for my fiancée multiple times, I don’t think they understand that my fiancée and I have very strong personalities, and they often clash,” he said.
“But we have ALWAYS come to a resolution of some sort. We oftentimes end up closer after arguments than anything, it’s just the way we are.”
“I have heard plenty of problems about their partners; I couldn’t imagine going behind their backs to talk..and say the negative things they were saying about my fiancée.”
He knows that none of his friends said what they did out of concern, especially since everything that they discussed was directed at destroying his fiancée.
He’s feeling confused as to how any of his friends in the bridal party could have an issue with his fiancée at all since she has always gone out of her way to only be nice to them.
He did tell his fiancée about what was said, and she sobbed for hours on end over it. She genuinely thought his friends were her friends too, though that’s obviously not the case since friends don’t backstab like that.
So far, he has not spoken to anyone in the bridal party about the issues they caused, but he’s convinced the best thing to do is to kick the offenders out of their wedding.
Do you agree that’s the best way to handle this?
