Her Sister-In-Law Is Terrible To Her, So She’s Struggling With Whether Or Not To Tell Her That She’s Being Cheated On
If someone went out of their way to make your life awful for years on end, would you want to do them any favors?
Well, one woman is struggling with whether or not to let her sister-in-law know that she’s being cheated on.
Her sister-in-law has been nothing but terrible to her, and she’s extensively bullied her, so that’s why she’s wondering what to do here.
Things all started years ago when her brother introduced her sister-in-law to the family. The first time she met her sister-in-law, she tried to be friendly but her sister-in-law was completely rude to her before walking off.
Off to a bad start, right? And everything only got worse from there.
“About two years in, I caught her online saying terrible things about me,” she explained. “I was friends with her on social media but I think she forgot, because she posted multiple statuses about me- and I know they were about me because she called me by name.”
“She said things like she didn’t know how I’ve made it so far in life without getting punched in the face.”
“Or she had a dream she was walking with a cup of hot coffee and she ran into me and spilled it all over my head and she woke up laughing.”
Since she isn’t a frequent social media user, this all went on for half of a year until she even saw the statuses.
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Her sister-in-law had posted tons of nasty things about her, so she addressed it with her. She asked her sister-in-law to join her for lunch, and she actually said that she was sorry if she did anything at all to make her upset in any way.
She wondered if they could “start over” and although her sister-in-law agreed, she never tried to say sorry for her behavior or outline what the original issue was that caused her to post all those awful things on social media.
After that, her sister-in-law did stop her posts, but she kept being rude and hostile towards her. Her sister-in-law went to great lengths to “ignore” her at events with their family and her sister-in-law would weirdly enough buy presents for her dog and her husband, but not for her.
“She sent her wedding invitation to me with my maiden name, even though my husband and I have been married for 2 years,” she pointed out. “Just almost kind of spiteful.”
Recently, her husband and her brother went to hang out together one night since they’re all friends with the same people.
When her husband returned home from the evening, he said that he had watched her brother sneak over to a bedroom with another girl who was not her sister-in-law.
When her brother had come out of the room, he and the other woman definitely looked “disheveled” and although her husband hadn’t seen what went on behind that closed door, it was easy to guess.
Her husband and brother went over to this friend’s house again another night, and once more, her husband saw her brother go into that bedroom with this girl on two occasions.
“And it kept happening every time they would hang out- this girl would show up, sit in his brother’s lap, they would eventually wander into the bedroom for a while and come back out,” she said.
Her brother is going to be getting married soon, and now she’s experiencing “morality issues” regarding if she should let her sister-in-law know.
If her husband was doing things behind her own back she would want to know, but her sister-in-law has been so cruel to her for years that she thinks maybe she should stay silent on the matter.
Do you think she should say something or keep quiet?
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