A Guy Asked Her Out On A Date To A Fancy Restaurant And Then He Rudely Made It Clear She Was Paying For Herself That Night
It’s pretty much an unspoken rule that if someone asks you out on a date, it’s on them to pay for it, right?
Well, one young woman was recently asked out on a first date with a guy, but he quickly made it clear in the rudest way possible that she was paying for herself that night.
Initially, she met this guy through one of her friends, and she only saw him once in person before he asked her to go out with him.
Judging him by that one time she met him, she got the impression that he was a “nice” guy, and so she agreed to go on a first date, thinking she would have a great time.
Little did she know, this guy really wasn’t that nice at all, but we’ll get to that in a moment.
As soon as this guy asked her out, he said he wanted to take her to this fancy restaurant, and she did say yes to going there.
She knew this place was within her budget, so if she had to pay her own way, she was completely prepared.
The night of her date arrived, and she got to the restaurant to meet this guy. They were seated, and then their waitress came over to take their order.
“….He wanted something chicken and I said I’d like the salmon,” she explained. “He looked at me and was like, “Whoa hold on there ‘gold diggie’ I just want to clarify that you’re paying for yourself ok.”
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She couldn’t help but be upset by that comment, since first of all, who even says “gold diggie” instead of gold digger, and second of all, this guy was the one who asked her out.
“He could’ve just said were paying for ourselves and that would’ve been enough,” she said.
Which is a great point. This guy could have asked beforehand if it was ok for them to pay separately, but no, he had to go out of his way to make her feel bad about getting separate checks.
Also, if he didn’t want to spend a lot of money, he should have just asked her out for coffee since that’s only a couple of bucks, but we’re getting off-topic here.
As soon as this guy accused her of being a gold-digger and made it clear she had to pay her own way, she decided to order the priciest dish in the place.
“So I was like in that case I’ll order the most expensive thing I could find on the menu which is the lobster with some expensive drinks,” she continued.
“Which made the waitress chuckle and oh boy did it piss him off.” This guy actually stood up, said some nasty things to her, and walked right out of the restaurant.
The following morning, her friend who introduced them called her up to point out how furious this guy was.
Her friend thinks that she owes him an apology, but she doesn’t think she needs to say sorry at all.
“Honestly I feel like I dodged a bullet but still feel like I could have handled it better but I don’t know,” she concluded.
Do you think she owes him an apology?
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