Her Boyfriend Cheated On Her And Now She’s Convinced He’s About To Propose
A 19-year-old girl has been dating her 19-year-old boyfriend for close to half of a year now, and although they haven’t been together for that long, things have gotten pretty serious between them.
She is “madly in love” with him, and she knows he feels the same way about her, or at the very least she thinks he has to be “really obsessed” with her.
They’ve had a lot of ups and downs in their relationship, but despite that, everything was working out to be great between them.
“One of our biggest hardships happened about 3 weeks ago,” she explained. “I went to the club with some of my friends and I drank a lot but I was still in control of my actions.”
“Someone offered me a drink and I accepted it (because I’m dumb) and long story short, I woke up the next morning at a dude’s place not remembering anything from that night.”
“Anyways, I freaked out and left…This same evening, I told my bf about it and he was really mad at the guy and at me as well.”
Her boyfriend was so upset that she ended up at another guy’s place that he told her he did not want to continue being in a relationship with her.
She did speak to him extensively about what happened, and in the end, he agreed to keep dating her.
“Fast forward to 2 weeks later, I receive an Insta DM from a girl telling me she had a match on Tinder with my man a month ago and they’ve been talking ever since (so before the club incident),” she said.
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“She just learned today that he had a GF through a friend and that’s why she’s telling me now. I was in shock obviously, we called and she told me all the details.”
This girl told her that she met up with her boyfriend several times and then they slept together too.
Her boyfriend cheated on her after the incident that happened back in the club, and after he insisted that he was over it and wanted to be with her.
Two days after she found out about her boyfriend cheating on her, she presented the evidence she had that he cheated.
He immediately got uneasy and said that he was “ashamed of his actions.” Her boyfriend then mentioned he wasn’t sure what he cheated on her since he “has everything” with her.
Apparently, her boyfriend was triggered by what happened to her at the club, and that was his reason for going through with sleeping with another girl.
“Long story short, we are in the process of making it work because I still love him obviously and he says he loves me too so I’m giving him a second chance,” she continued.
“Now the thing is, it’s been a week now that he’s talking about getting me a ring for my birthday (in a month). Yesterday he was also talking about “I’m going to do something crazy for you soon.”
“Once, we were talking and I was like “imagine you really propose that would be crazy haha” and he said he wants to do it because he knows I’m the one for him.”
She’s left feeling seriously confused about her boyfriend and his behavior. She thinks he’s definitely going to propose to her so he can ensure her forgiveness, but she is wondering if this is a manipulation tactic.
Do you think she should say yes if he gets down on one knee and hands her a ring?
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