Her Boyfriend Cheated On Her With A Girl That’s Way Prettier Than She Is, But She Isn’t Mad At This Other Girl At All

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A 25-year-old woman has been dating her boyfriend for 2 years now, and she thought their future together was pretty clear.

She has always had a wonderful time with her boyfriend, and she knew he was the one she wanted to spend the rest of her life with.

When she first started seeing her boyfriend, she was nervous that he would cheat on her since he’s really attractive, but that was pretty much all in her head and her boyfriend put a lot of time into making sure she felt secure and overcame those worries.

She never genuinely believed that her boyfriend was the type to cheat, but it turns out those worries weren’t just all in her head.

Recently, she learned that her boyfriend did sleep with another girl approximately 4 weeks ago, but her boyfriend refuses to share all of the information with her.

She does know that her boyfriend met this other girl via his sister, and when she tried to ask him for more details on his infidelity, he wouldn’t give her straight answers.

She instead turned to his sister to get the information she needed, and what his sister said was crushing.

Her boyfriend’s sister insisted that he cheated on her because the other girl was super pretty, and she just isn’t that attractive.

She took this information and confronted her boyfriend with it, and eventually, he owned up to that being the reason why he cheated.

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“I won’t say I’m ugly, but I’m not the prettiest either,” she explained. “I’m average at best, I’m not super skinny either, but I’m not fat, kind of in between.”

“The other girl is the complete opposite, skinny and tall and gorgeous. I was insecure about my looks too when I started seeing him because he’s a good-looking man himself, and it felt wrong to be with someone so handsome but at that time, he reassured me that he didn’t care about all that.”

“I can’t even curse at the girl because she’s a good person. She reached out and apologized because she didn’t know about me.”

She isn’t mad at this girl, but she’s also not mad at her boyfriend since aside from the cheating, he’s nothing but a good, sweet, “generous” guy.

She believes her boyfriend is truly sorry for what he did, though she is not really interested in dating him for much more time given his cheating.

She knows she needs to move on and let him go, but something is just giving her pause and she has yet to end things with him.

“It just sucks I’m not that pretty and it sucks even more that I got cheated on because of that,” she said.

“I just can’t bear the thought of my future husband “giving in to temptation” just because someone prettier than me approached him, and I don’t know if someone can actually look past my face for once.”

What do you think she should do?

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