She Cheated With A Married Man Who Got Her Pregnant, But He Ghosted Her After She Gave Birth So She’s Thinking Of Just Going To His House And Telling His Wife
A 37-year-old woman met a man a year young than her a few years ago, and they became fast friends.
She felt incredibly supported by this guy as she navigated some rough waters in her life, and she tried to be there for him when he needed her.
This guy was someone she leaned on as she dealt with her own husband’s infidelity and the loss of her newborn son.
Things progressed and got physical between them around 3 years ago, and at the time, he was already engaged to another woman.
After this guy friend of hers officially tied the knot, the physical relationship she had with him “mostly” fizzled out.
“It was clear we couldn’t just be friends so I cut things off completely for about a year,” she explained.
“My husband has cheated throughout our whole marriage (we’ve been separated several times) so I wasn’t too concerned about my spouse’s feelings regarding the situation (my spouse is fully aware of this situation when I told him we were opening our marriage).”
Well, during the pandemic, she rekindled things with her guy friend, who was surprisingly unhappy in his own marriage.
The fact that they were both miserable and married gave them a lot to talk about.
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“We both expressed that each other was the one that got away and ended up taking a romantic trip away together,” she said.
On this romantic getaway she took with him, she wound up getting pregnant, and she found out as soon as they got back home.
She was terrified to have this baby after experiencing such a devastating loss already, and he was there for her.
He was by her side as she went to all of her doctor’s appointments, and he reassured her that they would be able to work everything out and be together.
Several weeks into her pregnancy, he changed his mind and insisted that if she was going to go through with having this baby, he was exiting her life for good.
“I had a beautiful healthy baby girl who is the light of my life,” she continued. “She’s everything I didn’t know I was missing in my life.”
“My husband, after getting over the initial shock and anger, fell in love with her. He is the father figure she needs but we are no longer together and are going through a divorce.”
So, she’s sent her baby daddy guy friend multiple emails, though he hasn’t replied to any of them.
She did hear through the grapevine that right after she got pregnant, he and his wife also got pregnant too using IVF.
Although he has completely ghosted her and their daughter, she thinks it’s important for him to get to meet their little girl even if it’s only one time in his life.
“He will be on the hook financially but I want him to take responsibility for his actions/mistakes,” she mentioned.
“Should I go to his house? Contact his wife or family to let them know my daughter exists?”
She’s losing sleep over this and another option she’s considered is just leaving it be and accepting that he will never be a part of their daughter’s life.
How do you think she should handle this sticky situation?
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