She Just Found Out That The Guy She Went On A Date With Also Took Her Best Friend Out On A Date So She’s Curious If She Should Confront Him On Date Two
An 18-year-old girl currently attends college, and she ended up moving into a new dorm during her second semester, which really helped to boost her social life.
She made so many new friends because of her move, and a guy the same age as her named Brad wound up becoming one of her closest new friends.
She and Brad had the same exact internship, they spent a lot of time studying together, and they also had their dorm rooms on the same floor.
Another one of her best friends is a girl named Janet, who she actually met through her school’s chess club.
She thought it would be a great idea to get Brad to join the chess club too, which he agreed to after several months of her convincing him to do so.
After chess club, she, Brad, Janet, and some more of their friends would usually go out for dinner together and just hang out.
“About a month ago after one of these chess club meetings, Brad told me that he liked me romantically,” she explained.
“It was late at night so I asked him if we could talk about our relationship the next day. He agreed. The next day we got dinner and discussed our feelings.”
Brad revealed to her the following day that he had been crushing on her for a while and would love to start dating her.
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Although Brad was ready to be serious about her, she told Brad that she liked him more like a friend than romantically.
She reassured Brad that she was fine with him chatting with other women, and would hate to prevent him from meeting someone else due to how indecisive she was about getting into anything with him.
Two weeks after her conversation with Brad, she changed her mind. She really did like Brad far more than just “a friend” and she got up the courage to tell him.
Several weeks later, she went on her first date with Brad to the local zoo, and their date was pretty much magical.
Two days ago, she went to her final tournament for the chess club, and she drove there and back with her best friend Janet.
On the ride home, Janet told her twin sister that Brad had taken her out on a date, and her sister in turn told her.
“From what we put together, Brad went on this casual date with Janet the day after I told him I liked him back, but he had planned it before that,” she said.
“Because of this, I don’t think that he intentionally did this, I think that he was just moving on and exploring new things, which is completely fine. My problem comes with the fact that he may like both me and my good friend Janet.”
“My thought is that even though I also like Brad romantically, I personally think that Brad and Janet would be a cute couple because they have a lot in common.”
Janet and Brad have had a lot of experience in the dating department, though she has not, so she’s concerned they would “connect on a deeper level” than she and Brad would.
She’s about to go on a second date with Brad tomorrow, and she’s thinking she should talk to him about his date with Janet.
She’s curious if it makes sense to confront Brad and ask him to confirm that he has feelings for her, if he’s into Janet more, or if he’s playing the field.
What do you think she should do?
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