Her Boyfriend Is On A Mission To Catfish Married Men Who Are Stepping Out On Their Wives But She Really Wants Him To Stop
A 21-year-old girl has a boyfriend who is also 21, and over the course of several weeks, her boyfriend has been acting not like himself.
She wasn’t the only one who noticed that her boyfriend has become more reclusive; his loved ones have noticed a big difference in him too.
She was so concerned that maybe he found someone new, and she dug through his computer to see if she could find any evidence.
While she’s not happy that she resorted to going through his private things, she felt it had to be done, and she needed to get to the bottom of everything.
Well, what she discovered was immediately infuriating. Her boyfriend had been wasting hours on end on a dating site that was geared towards married people.
She was so upset that she went straight to her boyfriend about it, and he wasn’t concerned by her reaction at all.
Instead, he told her that it wasn’t what it seemed, and he showed her what he meant by that. He opened up his computer and was ready to tell her why he had been so aloof for weeks.
Her boyfriend had made a profile on the dating site, but it wasn’t of him; it was of a woman in her 30s.
Her boyfriend had been catfishing married men by pretending to be this woman, and he was using her photos as “bait.”
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He let her read the messages between him and these men, before opening up a file that had tons of details on who these guys were in real life.
“It looked like a detective’s work,” she explained. “It was extensive! Basically, he managed to use the data the guys shared with him about themselves and track their identity in other places on the internet.”
“It actually looked scary, he had their full names, photos, phone numbers, Instagram pages, home addresses, cars they owned, and info about their wives, children, and pets. I could go on, my point is: he thoroughly dissected the life of some of those guys.”
“I tried to get him to communicate with me on why he was doing that (I thought that maybe there was some underlying issue), but he just said he wanted to expose them to their families.”These cheaters deserve to pay for their lies” was how he justified it.”
So, she breathed a sigh of relief knowing her boyfriend wasn’t stepping out on her at all, but she would like him to stop what he is doing on this dating site.
She thinks her boyfriend going out of his way to catfish these married men is nothing but chilling, and she’s not convinced this is good for his mental health.
Her boyfriend is trying to do good by catching these guys in the act, but she doesn’t believe it’s anything that should concern him.
“I discussed it with my younger sister, but she thinks he’s doing a service to society (she has also been cheated on recently, so I think that’s where she’s coming from),” she continued.
How can she get her boyfriend to stop catfishing these guys once and for all?
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