Her Boyfriend Just Told Her That He’s Feeling Sad And Uneasy Shopping For An Engagement Ring
A young woman in her late 20s has been dating her boyfriend, who is around her age, for a year and 9 months now.
She really has an excellent relationship with her boyfriend, and there’s not really a single thing that they disagree on or argue about.
Their relationship is full of peace, and they never get upset with one another.
Throughout their relationship, the topic of getting engaged and then married has come up several times, and she has made it clear to her boyfriend that she’s not interested in simply dating him for a while.
She really would like to live together and get engaged, but she and her boyfriend have decided not to reside under the same roof until they are married.
She’s positive that she wants to be with her boyfriend forever, and she is not interested in waiting around for him to propose.
Her boyfriend has listened to what she wants, and he recently went out shopping for an engagement ring.
Lately, her boyfriend has started acting strange and like he’s full of anxiety. When she confronted him about his change in behavior, he revealed to her that proposing is stressing him out.
“He told me that he loves me and he sees a future with me and can’t picture himself with anyone else but can’t seem to make this next step,” she explained.
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“He kept using the word “block” saying there is a block in his mind. He has been going into ring shops and explained that when he goes he feels an uneasy feeling shopping.”
Instead of enjoying the process, her boyfriend is pretty much hating it. He feels sad and uncomfortable as he looks at engagement rings for her.
She’s not sure why her boyfriend is feeling like this, as they have extensively chatted about spending their lives together and having kids.
They also have discussed what kind of a house they will live in together, so it’s interesting that her boyfriend has been invested in all of those conversations, yet is getting upset about ring shopping.
There’s nothing that he has previously said to indicate that she’s more invested in their relationship than he is.
“We both love each other a lot and have such a beautiful relationship but this really confused me,” she said.
She isn’t happy that her boyfriend is feeling so bad about ring shopping, and she’s wondering if this is something that happens with other people.
Do you think her boyfriend is ever going to be ready to take the next step with her?
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