He Went On A First Date With A Girl Who Blurted Out That He’s The Love Of Her Life And He’s Not Sure How To Tell Her That He’s Not Interested
A guy recently went out on a first date with a girl named Ana, and they picked a coffee spot to meet up.
Their date was alright he thought, and after grabbing coffee together, they went for a stroll in a nearby park.
He found it easy to talk to her, but then Ana said a couple of things that made him start to wonder about her.
Regardless, he brushed it all off and tried to enjoy the rest of their date together.
“As time goes by, and confidence starts to grow up between us, we kissed,” he explained. “Ok. Cool.”
Immediately after kissing Ana, she blurted out something that made him really want to hit the brakes on her.
Ana said that she wanted to see him a lot in the coming week, and she asked him what days he was free, before pointing out that she remembered he’s pretty much always free on Tuesdays, Saturdays, and Fridays.
Ana listed off the days she recalled, before saying all of them work for her. She never let him get a word in edge-wise or confirm the dates.
She moved on to offering to pick him up and drive, and then, she told him that he is the love of her life.
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She laughed a bit, and said that she waited 7 long years “for this moment.” He was so surprised he couldn’t think of what to say back to her.
He and Ana did go to high school together, and although there were aware of one another back then, they weren’t friends, and it seemed that Ana may have had a crush on him back then due to her comment about waiting 7 years.
After taking a moment or two of silence, he did say to Ana that it’s very important to be upfront and honest about what they are both interested in, and as she began agreeing, the rain started pouring.
They were still standing there outside, and he took that opportunity to wrap up their date. He dropped Ana off at her place and made his way back home.
“She keeps sending messages, I respond,” he continued. “How can I tell her I don’t want anything with her? I don’t want to be rude.”
“She just detected that my conversation started to decrease.” Ana has been asking him if everything is alright, but he wants to really put some distance between them.
He’s curious if it’s alright to ghost her, or if there’s a better way to tell her that he’s not interested in her at all.
Do you think ghosting is ok in this situation, or should he let Ana down gently?
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