Her Boyfriend Went To An Event With All Of His Friends And A Girl That’s Been Crushing On Him Kissed Him But He Lied About It

Halfpoint - stock.adobe.com - illustrative purpose only, not the actual person
Halfpoint - stock.adobe.com - illustrative purpose only, not the actual person

A 23-year-old woman has a 22-year-old boyfriend who recently went to an event along with all of his friends.

One girl, in particular, ended up attending the event with them, and every single person there was aware that this girl has been crushing on her boyfriend,

She wasn’t able to go, and her boyfriend later recounted what went down to her.

At the event, her boyfriend chatted with the girl who likes him and they just hung out along with the rest of his friends.

“Then later on in the night she came up to him and kissed him,” she explained. “He says he froze and didn’t do anything to stop it.”

“She leaned in to kiss him again and he pulled away the second time. He told me he didn’t want it to happen, but he didn’t know why he let it happen the first time.”

“That already makes me upset. I feel like he cheated on me by letting it happen. But the cherry on top is the fact that this happened months ago.”

Last week was the very first time that he mentioned what had happened, but he lied to her about it all.

She brought it up again to him twice after he told her the story, as she thought a lot of things were not adding up, and she was right.

Halfpoint – stock.adobe.com – illustrative purpose only, not the actual person

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He continued to lie to her though and only came clean a couple of days ago. She was so angry with him when he finally did tell her the truth.

“What makes all of this worse is that in the talking stages of our relationship when we weren’t even dating and not exclusive, I kissed another guy,” she said.

“This was a big problem for him, and since then I have done everything in my power to prove to him that I’m a loyal and honest person. I also told him about it the day it happened.”

“But throughout the 2 years we’ve been together, he has constantly accused me of cheating. Always texts me when I’m out without him. There was even an occasion when he almost broke up with me because he “couldn’t stop thinking about what I did.”

She cannot move past her anger, and it mostly has to do with her boyfriend intentionally telling her anything but the truth.

She does love her boyfriend and would like to be able to forgive and move on, but the more she thinks about everything, the more she doubts that forgiveness is the right path here.

Do you think she should forgive him, or do you think this is something they won’t be able to put behind them?

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