He’s Not Going To Keep Paying For His Sister To Go To College After She Said Terrible Things About His Relationship
A 33-year-old man was married, but his wife had cancer and sadly passed away about 3 years ago from it.
More than a year after his wife passed away, he began seeing one of his dear friends that has been in his life for several years.
Fast forward to now, and they’re boyfriend and girlfriend. They have been dating for a year and 7 months, and although he never expected to fall for his best friend, he wanted to see where things went between them.
His parents and a couple of their friends knew that they were together, but aside from that, not many people were aware of their relationship.
“A few weeks ago we decided to start sharing the news that we are expecting our first child since she’s now in her second trimester,” he explained.
His 26-year-old sister was back from college as he and his girlfriend announced their pregnancy at his mom and dad’s house.
As soon as his sister heard what they had to say, she put their relationship down and made some terrible comments to him.
His sister accused him of never caring about his wife and cheating on her. She also said that she was “disgusted” to be his sister.
He’s not that close to his sister and they both don’t talk about anything related to their relationships, so that’s why this was the first time that his sister was hearing about him being in a relationship with his friend.
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Everything his sister had to say was not true though; he never cheated on his wife at all when she was sick.
It was more than a year after his wife passed away that he started seeing his friend, so he was always faithful to his wife until the end.
Although he did tell his sister about when he started seeing his friend, she didn’t listen to him.
His sister kept on saying such rude things, that his dad became furious and told her to get out of the house.
“It was super unsettling for me but I thought okay it was probably from shock,” he explained.
He chose to give his sister some space for a few weeks and then he reached out to her asking if they could have a chat.
His sister still accused him of being a cheater before saying that she wanted nothing to do with him.
He actually has been the one paying for his sister to go to college for the last 2 years so that she can focus on school instead of having to worry about getting a job.
This is the second time that his sister is going to college, as she took a break after she couldn’t figure out what career or major she would like to be in.
When his sister said that she would be returning to college, that’s when he stepped in to financially help her.
In light of the terrible things his sister has said, he told her that he’s no longer going to be paying for her to go to college, and his mom thinks it’s “petty” of him to do this.
“Even my sister says I’m beyond low because now I’m trying to punish her for speaking the truth knowing how much this would set her back if she can’t pay for her classes on her own,” he said.
“Which means she’d need a full-time job again and then would make it take longer to complete her BA. But if she’s that uncomfortable with being associated with me then why pay for her? At least that’s how I see it but maybe it’s just the anger talking.”
Do you think he’s doing the right thing by refusing to pay for his sister to go to college after the cruel things she said to him?
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