She Went On A First Date With A Guy That Lasted 7 Hours, So She Doesn’t Understand Why He Stopped Talking To Her Right After
A 19-year-old girl does use a dating app to meet guys, but she’s really picky about who she chooses to meet in real life.
She really tries hard to make sure that once the pleasantries and chit-chat are out of the way, there might be a real connection, and that’s tough to find.
In the 2 years that she’s been online dating, she has only agreed to go on a date with 3 guys, and the most recent guy she went on a first date with has left her feeling confused, and for good reason.
It was last weekend that she had a date with this 20-year-old guy, and she figured everything was excellent, especially considering the fact that their date lasted an entire 7 hours.
“We went out to eat in NYC and then spent the rest of the night walking and sitting by the waterfront,” she explained.
“The date lasted 7 hours (5 pm-12 am), including the Uber rides in and out of the city.”
“He was very communicative before the date, sending hearts, flirting, and typically responding in under 20 minutes.”
She was positive that there was going to be a second date, as he talked about them going out bowling, and he also reassured her that he would not be so anxious the next time that he saw her.
Although she was fully expecting to still speak with him after their first date and even go on another one, he disappeared off the face of the earth.
asashka – stock.adobe.com – illustrative purpose only, not the actual person
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She has noticed that he put on social media that he’s releasing a new song (he is a rapper) yet he has not replied to any messages she has sent him after their date.
She has no idea what happened, as she felt that they were getting along great, and clearly, this guy was not in a rush to wrap up their date.
“He didn’t compliment me at all during the date, which I don’t go out expecting from a stranger, but it felt like a 180 from his attitude over text,” she said.
“When I compare myself to the girls in his music videos, it feels like I’m not physically what he likes.”
It’s not like she didn’t post pictures of herself on the dating app, so he definitely knew what she looked like before he asked her out.
“I feel very hung up over this because I liked him a lot,” she continued. “It was the best date I’ve been on, and I’m genuinely struggling to see what went wrong.”
Why do you think he stopped talking to her right after a seemingly wonderful first date?
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