She’s About To Get Married But She’s Still So Angry At Her Ex-Boyfriend And It’s Overshadowing Her Happily Ever After
How long are we allowed to let those who have affected us in the past continue to affect our lives in the present?
Some of us were lucky enough to maneuver through life without the daunting past of a horrible ex who still haunts our dreams to this day.
If you are one of those people, you are fortunate, as some folks out there will spend the rest of their lives struggling.
Unfortunately, this is the case for a girl who recently explained her frustrations about her ex-boyfriend, who ultimately impacted her life and, at first, her relationship with her soon-to-be husband.
Before this bride-to-be met her future husband, she was psychologically tormented by her ex-boyfriend.
He dumped her out of nowhere, would go days without speaking to her, and would often be furious if she was upset that he ghosted her for days.
He would disappear and come back, which caused horrible insecurity issues and multiple therapy sessions.
So she finally found her way out.
In the middle of letting go of the horrible man who crushed her spirit every single day, she also let go of her dream school.
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She chose to attend a prestigious college where she knew absolutely no one and, within days, met a man who she would soon be able to call her husband.
The best part about it the story was his patience. He knew she had to heal to love and trust again, and he helped her. Now they are about to be married, and this man possesses many remarkable qualities.
“I am marrying the best person and love him the most,” she said. “He’s a very smart doctor, witty, fun, and treats me with all the kindness, respect, and love in the world.”
Although she’s about to have her happily ever after, her ex-boyfriend still has a terrible hold on her life.
“I’m not over the fact that on the week of my wedding, a little voice shrieks concerns of abandonment and psychological torment, even though I rationally know my soon-to-be husband absolutely would never,” she continued.
“I still absolutely hate him. And I hate that I hate him because holding onto hatred only hurts ourselves.”
“But, at least I can appreciate my incredible almost-husband that much more because I endured him.”
She’s still so angry at her ex that it’s overshadowing her wedding. How can she finally let this go once and for all?
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