His Girlfriend Is Spending Hundreds Of Dollars Of His Own Money Without Asking Him First, And It’s Making Him Crazy

A 24-year-old guy has been dating his 25-year-old girlfriend for the last 6 years. A year ago, she started showing signs of a super awful spending habit.
The thing is, his girlfriend is not spending her own money, though; she’s spending all of his, and it’s out of control.
“It started with rent money, I’d give her my half of the rent, and she was supposed to add her half and give it to our landlord to pay the rent,” he explained.
“About a year ago, she stopped paying the rent and would just go and spend the money I gave her on God knows what.”
“When I found out about it, we had a massive argument, but in the end, the problem got solved, and she stopped doing it.”
Over the last several months, he then noticed that his credit card number was declined when he tried to buy something with it.
He immediately went to take a look at his bank account, and although he knew he had $500 to spend, it was gone.
He instantly lost it, imagining that someone had gotten a hold of his card and racked up bills.
He questioned his girlfriend if she had seen his credit card anywhere, and she then admitted that she took his card and was the one spending his money.

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“I was absolutely furious, to be honest, I still am money’s not exactly tight, and she has no reason to steal money from me, especially from my credit card,” he said.
“Then today I checked my savings account because I am saving up to buy a milling machine for my business, and there was $100 missing she had taken my card again, and to her credit, she spent $50 of that putting fuel in my truck (which she doesn’t need to be driving anyway but I was asleep) and the rest on groceries.”
“It doesn’t sound that bad but the fact she just took my card without asking, spent my money without asking, and I don’t know what groceries she actually bought it gives me flashbacks to what she had done before and I just don’t trust her.”
He’s left wondering how he can get his girlfriend to quit spending his money without asking him or if he’s just being too sensitive regarding her doing this in the first place.
Do you think he should let his girlfriend keep doing what she is doing or put a stop to it?
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