She’s Unsure If Her Husband Cheated On Her Before They Got Married But She’s Considering Trying To Find Out
This woman and her husband have been happily married for a while now and even have kids together.
But, when the couple began dating as youngsters, the woman was suspicious that her then-boyfriend had cheated on her. And now, years later, she is considering seeking closure.
The “incident” that led the woman to believe she had been cheated on occurred after just a few months of dating her now-husband.
She was just hanging out with him when she saw a text message pop up on his phone, and it was from a girl.
The woman does not remember exactly what the message said. But, after confronting her boyfriend about it, he did something shady.
“I asked who it was and if I could see the message. And boom, when he gave it [the phone] to me, he had deleted the conversation,” the woman recalled.
Later that night, the couple even broke up. The woman claimed that their split was not just because of the text message but because they had been treating mistreating each other for a while.
“We started to become toxic toward each other and asked each other if we were still happy in our relationship. We weren’t, so we broke up,” she explained.
Following the breakup, the then-boyfriend did hang out with the girl he had been texting. And eventually, he told the woman they also went out together.
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Apparently, they went on a few dates, but her now-husband decided he could not enter anything serious with the girl.
He cited his own immaturity and the girl’s age as his excuses.
Then, the woman and her then-boyfriend eventually got back together and, of course, married.
The woman believes her husband is now a great father to their kids and treats her amazingly.
Still, not knowing if her husband cheated on her back in the day has always scared the woman.
“The thought of never seeing those messages has always haunted me. To be honest, there were even times when I was glad I wasn’t able to see so, at least if it were bad, I would never know,” she revealed.
Now, though, the woman is considering putting her fears to rest and getting closure with the situation.
She currently has the ability to contact the girl who had texted her now-husband and learn if there was any relationship overlap when they dated.
But, the woman is unsure if it’s a good idea.
She claims that nothing she finds out could change their marriage and that her husband is already “forgiven” because he was so young at the time.
However, perhaps the woman is scared that something inside her will change if she finds out about any cheating.
Do you think she should reach out to the girl and get closure? Or, if she is happy in her marriage, is it not worth the potential heartbreak?
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