Her Sister Said She Needed To Wear A Wig And Lose Weight To Attend Their Wedding, So Now She’s Just Not Going At All
This thirty-two-year-old woman was unfortunately diagnosed with cancer last year. So, due to her chemotherapy treatments, she lost her hair.
“I have also gained weight because I haven’t been as active as I usually am. I struggle with fatigue after treatment,” she explained.
“So, I have short hair, a few extra pounds, and I also don’t work right now. I am on disability benefits.”
And while all of this is entirely understandable, her post-cancer appearance recently prompted her sister to make some outrageous remarks and demands.
For context, she and her twenty-eight-year-old sister have not been close for a long time. And now, her sister is getting married to someone she has only heard of and never even met.
“The one time she said anything about him, she said she had contracted chlamydia from him. This was when they first started dating one year ago, so I did not get a very positive impression of him at all,” she said. Yikes.
Anyway, now that her sister’s wedding is coming up, her sister actually picked up the phone to call her for the first time all year.
But, it was not to check in on her or even just catch up. Instead, her sister demanded that she wear a wig to the wedding, lose weight, and not tell any of the guests what she does for a living so that way she did not “steal the spotlight” at the event.
She was utterly shocked that her sister could have the nerve and immediately hung up the phone. Then, the next day, she decided to text her sister to share how she would no longer be attending the ceremony.
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Her sister did not take that well, though, and ended up calling back just to scream at her. So, she decided to just block her sister’s phone number and move on.
However, this opened up a firestorm of angry calls and messages from her other family members.
“I got nasty messages from my sister’s partner’s sister and one of the parents. I never even met them, let alone know their names,” she recalled.
“And now, one week later, I have gotten so many messages from my aunt, one of my cousins, and my grandmother.”
Apparently, everyone has been saying how utterly selfish she is for “not doing it for her sister.” And she just cannot believe her entire family would do this.
Thankfully, four of her cousins are on her side and totally support her decision not to attend. Still, though, her mother has been kind of passive-aggressive about the entire situation and her dad has not said anything at all.
So now, she is not sure if choosing not to attend the wedding is a totally justified decision or if she should just go anyway.
If you were in her shoes, would you still go to the wedding? What do those comments say about her sister? How would you move forward from this?
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