The Worst Date Of Her Life Involved A Guy Asking Her To Come Over To His House And He Blocked Her On Everything Just As She Was Pulling Into His Apartment Complex
Dating apps are today’s ice cream socials. Gone are the days of meeting “the one” at the local dance or sharing a sundae with them after school at the ice cream parlor.
Meeting people and getting to know someone in person isn’t what the dating world is all about anymore. Now, it’s just a sea of strange faces behind a screen, and you have to have faith that their dating profile doesn’t lie.
But for some unfortunate users of dating apps, like TikTok creator @tallblonde.jpg, their matches don’t come forward with the entire truth about their identity right away.
“So I met this guy on Tinder, and he was very flakey with his communication,” she said. “His reasoning being that he traveled for work, and so he only checked the app when he was in town.”
While this may initially seem odd, she didn’t think much of it at first especially given that she had just met him on Tinder and hadn’t really gotten to know him yet.
“I obviously sensed some red flags, but I don’t lie to people, so I decided to give him the benefit of the doubt,” she said.
Their communications started to fade away since he claimed that he wasn’t in town that often. But he suddenly reappeared and threw her a curveball that she never expected.
“One of the times he pranced back into my life, he gave me his Snapchat and his phone number and said he was more reachable there,” she explained.
TikTok; pictured above is @tallblonde.jpg in her video
This then led to more frequent conversations between the two until he finally asked her to come over to his place one night.
“One night when I was out at a bar with some friends, he Snapchatted me and was like, ‘you should come over when you’re done at the bar,'” she said. “I told him he could come to meet me at the bar, and he said he couldn’t because his car was in the shop.”
This response from him finally started to provoke some more suspicion as to who he was and why he couldn’t come and meet her in person, even though she said that in her mind, he “had everything on paper.”
“He said he could come to the bar, but only if I picked him up,” she said.
All of these bizarre reasonings that he was giving in response to her inquiries signaled some major red flags in her mind, but in wanting to pursue this guy, she pushed them aside.
“Then he said, ‘I would really like to have you over here; we could just watch a movie and cuddle,'” she said. “I pretended I did not see the red flags.”
She decides that this is a good enough plan for the moment and says that she’ll come over to his place so that they can meet in person.
“I texted him and said I could head over, and he needed to send me his address,” she explained. “He texts me his address and says he can’t wait to see me.”
He seemed to be engaged in both their conversation and their plan to meet up at his place, so much so that he sent a “Snapchat of him putting laundry away in his bedroom,” as if he was preparing for their date.
But things took a turn when she showed up at the address.
“As I’m pulling into this apartment building complex, I unlock my phone to let him know that I’m close,” she said. “Snapchat was the last app that I had open, and I just so happened to realize that he had deleted me on Snapchat.”
Only minutes before, he was inviting her over to his apartment, and now he has deleted and blocked her through all forms of communication.
“I decide to send him a text because my red flags are flying,” she said. “Text doesn’t deliver…he blocked me.”
If that isn’t suspicious, what is? Perhaps it’s all of the information that she found out after doing an entire investigation on him. In a later video, she discusses how she uncovered the truth about this man. “The first thing this guy lied about was his last name,” she explained. “The second thing he lied about is what he did for work.”
He not only used a fake name, as she later discovered the last name she knew of his wasn’t his legal name, but he also claimed to have a job that he never had. “The third big thing he lied about was his living situation,” she said. “He said he owned his own apartment and lived alone, and both of those things were lies.”
This man that she met on Tinder completely lied about his entire life and hid it until the very last minute when he decided that his best option was to block her and send her to an unknown address.
“Unfortunately, these experiences don’t seem to be that uncommon,” she said. “If you’ve been through something similar where you discovered all of the person’s lies, I’m really sorry that that happened to you.”
You can watch her videos here and here.
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