Katharina Buczek
“Flowers are not cursed; we are not cursed. Dad made bad choices, and if Jan couldn’t come to terms with that, then she needed to seek treatment– because her behavior was not acceptable or normal.”
She claims that right after she said that, though, Jan looked as if someone had interrupted her “Oscar speech.” Afterward, Jan also stormed out with her husband; meanwhile, she was left trying to salvage the day for her mom.
Now, since that incident, her mom’s boyfriend has thanked her for standing up to her sister. Shockingly, though, her mom and aunt have actually taken Jan’s side.
They claim that her sister is very “sensitive” and “delicate.” So, she should have known better than to bring roses into the house.
Her husband could not care less about what happened, though, and just will not go to any family functions where Jan is in attendance anymore.
So, with the holidays right around the corner, she has since been left wondering whether telling her sister that their family was not actually cursed really makes her a jerk or not.
Can you believe that Jan has blamed their parents’ divorce on roses for all of these years? Does it seem like Jan might have some unprocessed childhood trauma? Did she have a right to finally tell the truth to her sister? If you had been in her shoes, how would you have handled this situation?
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