Katharina Buczek
So, she told her parents that what they did was beyond wrong and really out of line. She also ended up going home and telling her parents that she hoped their Thanksgiving with Tom would be everything they hoped it would be.
And afterward, she just shut off her phone for the rest of the day to collect herself and calm down.
If you could not have guessed, though, as soon as she turned her phone back on, she had countless texts and messages from her parents. Some of them were even from Tom himself using her parent’s cell phones.
She opted not to listen to them, though, and just deleted them all. Then, after one week of not speaking to her parents, she finally decided to reach out to her mom again once she had calmed down.
Thankfully, her mom did ultimately apologize for just springing Tom on her like that.
And during that conversation, she reiterated that her parents needed to stop hoping she and her ex would get back together since she honestly does not want Tom in her life at all.
At that point, though, even more beans were spilled– because it came out that her parents had also invited Tom to Christmas, too!
“Evidently, he now has sole custody of the kid, and my parents have been playing grandparent,” she explained.
“But I told her that any function Tom is at, I will not be at, and if they ever spring him on me again, that will be the last time we speak for a very long time.”
Ever since then, though, her parents have accused her of being straight-up cruel. They claim that by giving them an ultimatum, she is forcing them to choose between her and Tom.
On top of that, her parents also threw in a side dish of guilt by claiming that Tom’s son “needs a family.”
