Her Boyfriend Has A Best Female Friend That Is Just Way Too All Over Him, And It’s To The Point Where She Feels Uncomfortable

Drobot Dean - stock.adobe.com - illustrative purposes only, not the actual person
Drobot Dean - stock.adobe.com - illustrative purposes only, not the actual person

This 20-year-old girl has a boyfriend who is 24, and he has a group of friends that includes 6 different people.

Her boyfriend spends a lot of time with his friend group, and they even spend holidays together too.

For the most part, she likes her boyfriend’s friends, and she doesn’t have a hard time getting along with them.

However, there is one 23-year-old girl that she really does not like at all. This girl is obnoxious and always puts herself at the center of it all.

She tries to be polite to this girl, and she knows that she doesn’t need to love every single friend that her boyfriend has.

The major issue she has with this girl is that she’s so touchy-feely, but only with the guys in her boyfriend’s friend group.

“So she sits on the laps of her male friends, hugs and touches them a lot and stuff,” she explained.

“Again: Not my cup of tea, but would be totally fine if she didn’t do it that freaking much and in a really disrespectful way! Here are some situations that bothered me (although it’s hard to describe).”

“One time my boyfriend had a hiccup, and she asked him if she should “cuddle it away.” She often hugs him from behind when he’s sitting in a kind of intimate way. She tries to tickle him when they’re sitting next to each other on the sofa and ends up half sitting/lying on him.”

Drobot Dean – stock.adobe.com – illustrative purposes only, not the actual person

“One time, my BF drunkenly said to her, “I’ve got the best GF in the world.” Her response: She pulls him closer and asks, “what about me? I’m your best friend!”

Now, those are only a few examples, as this girl is always all over her boyfriend to the point where it’s really making her uncomfortable.

This girl also ignores her, even though she did really make an effort to have a relationship with her.

But anyway, she found out that 4 years ago, this girl was insanely in love with her boyfriend and claimed he was “the one.”

Her boyfriend even slept with this girl several times, though apparently, he wasn’t interested in taking things to the next level.

She has been dating her boyfriend for a year, and she doesn’t believe she’s scared of this girl stealing her man away, especially since this girl does have her own boyfriend now.

“But every time when we see his friends, and she does something like this, it makes me so so angry,” she said.

“It’s like a slap in the face, and I can’t say anything, or I’ll be the “jealous girlfriend.” My BF gets my point but doesn’t know what he should do, and honestly, I don’t know either. How can we deal with this in the future?”

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