Katharina Buczek
David also claimed that it was wrong of her to expect her boyfriend to pay for half of everything– particularly because she makes substantially more money than him.
Instead, David told her that it would be much fairer to divide expenses based on their income percentages.
For instance, she pays for seventy percent of everything; meanwhile, Matt pays for only thirty percent rather than a fifty-fifty split.
But then, David took it one step further and accused her of not “allowing” Matt to save money on his own. In fact, David even claimed that she was trapping Matt in their relationship– since he cannot afford to live on his own– and deemed that “financially abusive.”
Honestly, though, she admitted to just laughing right in David’s face after hearing that.
“This is one of the most ridiculous things I have ever heard,” she said.
Still, she did not really try to refute anything that David was saying, just because she claimed that none of what he said made any sense.
And apparently, that made David express a mix of emotions– which she believed could have been anger, offense, or disappointment– even though she could not make them out exactly.
Nonetheless, David ended up just telling her that he expected better of her. Moreover, he went to her with a genuine concern in an effort to be helpful and did not expect her to react so immaturely.
Anyway, it has now been a couple of days since David confronted her, and she honestly still cannot wrap her mind around the whole situation.
Still, even though she really has no idea how David came to that conclusion– especially because Matt lives with her rent-free and only pays for utilities– she has been left wondering if she should apologize to David for laughing in his face since he did genuinely look concerned.
