She Finally Flipped Out On Her Stepsister For Constantly Psychoanalyzing Everyone In Their Family, But Now She’s Afraid She Alienated Her Since She Won’t Speak To Anyone

kristinakibler - stock.adobe.com - illustrative purposes only, not the actual person
kristinakibler - stock.adobe.com - illustrative purposes only, not the actual person

This 30-year-old woman has a stepsister the same age as her, named Bella. Bella’s dad and her mom ended up getting together when she and Bella were 16.

Back then, Bella was bitter about her parents getting divorced, and she also was confrontational with her own mom.

She honestly wasn’t happy that Bella was so mean to her mom, so she never ended up getting close to Bella, even as the years wore on.

Bella had two brothers named Max and Jake, and she did get along great with them and still feels close to them to this day.

Throughout the last year, Bella has gotten really into psychology, to the point where she starts trying to pin down issues that everyone she knows has.

“She will send articles about narcissistic parents, golden children, scapegoats, triangulation, etc., to our family group chat with messages like “@(sibling) this is you” or “isn’t this like Mum” (their bio mum),” she explained.

“Jake, Max, and my stepdad all say it annoys them that all she wants to talk about is the past. She is like this in person, too. No matter how many times we smile and nod and sometimes even say we are not interested in armchair therapy from her, she just says she has a right to express her feelings, and she’s trying to start a dialogue.”

“Part of her whole thing is deciding that her dad basically replaced her with me because she reminds him of her mother and that because he loves my mum and never loved hers, I am his favorite/golden child.”

Well, during Christmas, Bella pointed out the family photos her parents keep on a dining room shelf of theirs.

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Bella wanted to know where a picture of her and her father taken at graduation went, and her parents mentioned they had put it somewhere else so that a photo of her and their parents taken at her wedding could sit on the shelf.

Her parents then told Bella that the photo she was asking about currently sits in their lounge instead.

Bella got snarky about the photo being moved but then seemed to put it behind her.

Later on, at lunch, she brought up a photoshoot she’s currently involved in, and Bella started in on how their parents will begin moving more photos on that dining room shelf to include the photoshoot photos.

She mentioned to Bella that her statement was confusing because the photoshoot photos won’t be of her at all.

Bella then went on about how she made her invisible and stole the place in her dad’s life away from her, as well as the place she had in the lives of her brothers too.

“At this point, I just snapped and said that that was an absurd accusation when she makes every family conversation about herself, and while we all appreciate she is deeply hurt by a lot of things, we’re all sick of being psychoanalyzed,” she said.

“I said that her obsession with me was ridiculous because the only person I’ve ever heard compare us is her and that she needs to find someone qualified and appropriate to discuss these hurt feelings with and stop suffocating us all with her feelings because we’re all bored.”

“Jake just started laughing, and Max shouted, ‘thank God someone said it,’ but Bella burst into tears and left the table. She went home early and has since removed herself from the group chat and isn’t talking to her dad or brothers.”

She’s not sorry about what she said; she’s just sorry that it seems she has alienated Bella from their family.

She’s starting to think she may have been pretty harsh and rude to Bella. Do you think she was?

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