Not Only Did She Kick Her Sister Out Of Her Bridal Party, But She Also Uninvited Her From Her Wedding After Her Sister Picked A Bridesmaid Dress That Looked Exactly Like Her Wedding Dress
This woman is getting married soon, and instead of picking her older sister to be her maid of honor, she asked her best friend to hold this special role.
Considering the fact that a maid of honor needs to assist the bride, she knew her sister wouldn’t be up to that task.
Her sister has her hands full with two children who are in school, and her sister has epilepsy, so she cannot drive.
That’s pretty much how she arrived at the conclusion that her best friend should be the maid of honor, but she did ask her sister to be the matron of honor.
While the maid and matron of honor are essentially the same things, a maid of honor is someone who is not married, and a matron of honor is someone who has had a wedding before.
But anyway, she wanted her sister to feel special without being burdened with having to help her plan her wedding.
Anyway, when it came time for her bridesmaids to purchase their dresses, she instructed the girls to get a floor-length style dress in a given color.
She did give everyone permission to pick out their own style, so long as they followed her 2 rules, and she requested that every girl send her a picture of their dress before buying it so she could approve it.
She then said to all of her bridesmaids that they should get silver-colored shoes and stud earrings as their accessories.
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“Time goes on, and I approve things for people,” she explained. “In the group chat, the other girls want to see what everyone chose.”
“My sister posted her choice (that I had never seen before that moment or approved), and it had off-the-shoulder draped sleeves, illusion cleavage, a sweetheart neckline, and a thigh-high slit up the front.”
“I tried to be supportive of her choice even though she never got my approval, and it was going to be cold that time of year. She then tried to pick out bridal white heels with white rhinestones, which I declined. We found silver ones. Then for her earrings, I approved them, after which she said they were her “something old and something new.” Kind of rubbed me wrong, but moving on.”
The thing is, her sister basically picked out her exact wedding dress, and her sister knew what her dress looked like before she bought a bridesmaid dress.
Her fiancé was furious when he found out, and he felt that her sister was intentionally trying to outshine her over the fact that she never got to have a wedding.
Her fiancé then said she had to talk to her sister and convince her to get a new dress. Instead, she informed her sister that they could close up the slit in her dress and get her a shawl for the photos and ceremony.
Her sister flipped out on her and was not willing to compromise. Her sister then accused her of looking at her as “competition.”
“So I kicked her out of the wedding party and, since she has a habit of being vindictive, uninvited her altogether,” she said. “I didn’t want drama. There is A LOT more that went on, but this is the gist of it.”
She’s left wondering if it was mean of her to uninvite her sister completely. What do you think?
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