He Cheated With His Best Friend’s Sister, But He Still Is In Love With His Ex And Even Planned To Propose To Her With A Ring He Saved For Years To Buy
This 28-year-old man was in a relationship with his 30-year-old girlfriend for 5 years, but one evening in December of 2022 changed everything.
On the night in question, he drank way too much, and he doesn’t really recall what exactly happened, but then he woke up to his best friend’s 21-year-old sister laying right beside him. In his bed.
They had all been at a party the evening before, but he honestly couldn’t even remember his best friend’s sister attending that party.
He ended up creating his own worst “nightmare” because he really, truly was in love with his girlfriend, yet he had very clearly cheated on her.
He asked his best friend’s sister not to say anything to anyone about what had happened between them, as he needed time to consider what he should do in such a sticky situation.
He felt awful for cheating, and the guilt was eating him alive; however, he was not brave enough to come clean to his girlfriend.
For several weeks, he kept quiet about what he had done, but then on Christmas Day last year, his best friend’s sister informed him that she was definitely pregnant.
This really left him with no choice but to be with his best friend’s sister, and he then let his girlfriend know that he was interested in breaking up. He never told her about the cheating though.
After dumping his girlfriend, he started officially dating his best friend’s sister.
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“We got engaged on Valentine’s Day because (she) told me that it was important to her to be married before having the baby,” he explained.
“I know that too because I know my friend’s family is very conservative. We had to at least be engaged before breaking up the news to them that we were expecting.”
A week ago, he and his best friend’s sister sadly lost their baby, and now he’s left feeling more unhappy than he has ever felt before.
“I still love my ex, and I can’t believe how all my life changed because of one drunk mistake,” he said.
“I was supposed to propose to my ex this Valentine’s Day, and I even had the ring that I saved for 3 years.”
“…I want to call my ex and confess to everything to her now. I know I can’t have her back, but I want her to at least know that I still love her but that I needed to do the right thing and atone for my mistake. I really want to do that, but my sister, who knows everything, told me to just let her go.”
Do you think he should take his sister’s advice and say nothing, or should he finally tell his ex the truth?
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