Her Boyfriend’s Female Best Friend Really Worries Her, But She’s Afraid To Say Something And Be Labeled As Jealous
This 30-year-old woman has been dating her 30-year-old boyfriend for a year now, and she’s pretty positive that this is the man she’s going to spend the rest of her life with.
Her boyfriend feels the same way about her, and that definitely has given her confidence in their relationship.
Her boyfriend lives with his best female friend, and this girl is someone that her boyfriend has known for a large part of his life.
“Before we started going out, a mutual friend warned me about her; that she actively has tried to test my BF’s loyalty to her by causing scenes on nights out and having crises that only he can help her with,” she explained.
“I’ve been a bit wary of her because of this. Well, now that I know her, I’ve experienced it firsthand. She has called my BF twice while the two of us were out on dates crying and begging for his help, and he was more than happy to go and help her.”
“He’s also told me stories of him driving through the night to help her deal with her issues, even when she was with her boyfriend at the time.”
Another strange thing about this girl is that she kind of forced her friendship on her. This girl will constantly talk about how much she enjoys being around her, which just makes her uneasy.
She has not spent a lot of time around her boyfriend’s best friend, so there’s really no reason for this girl to be all about her.
Her boyfriend’s best friend has also done nothing to really get to know her at all, and she just thinks this girl is highly manipulative instead of friendly.
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Additionally, when she first started dating her boyfriend, they had a problem in their relationship, and he turned to his best friend for help.
Instead of her boyfriend’s best friend being helpful, the advice she provided to her boyfriend made everything even more terrible than it was, though her boyfriend is convinced his best friend only dishes out excellent advice.
“On top of this, my boyfriend always talks about how all the boys like her, and all his male friends have had crushes on her,” she said.
Her boyfriend has also addressed that all of the girls he dated in the past couldn’t stand his best friend because they were envious of her.
Although her boyfriend’s best friend really does worry her, she’s afraid to say something to her boyfriend, as she doesn’t want to be labeled as jealous.
“So, I don’t want to be lumped in with his “probably jealous” exes, but I just feel really uncomfortable about their relationship,” she continued.
“I don’t like the pedestal he holds her on and the way that she treats me. Separately, all these things seem pretty silly and small, but overall it’s kinda getting to me.”
What advice do you have for her about handling her boyfriend’s best friend?
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