Whether You Love Kelsea Ballerini’s Music Or Not, Here Are 5 Things You Can Learn From Her Very Ugly Breakup
After nearly five years of marriage, country singer Kelsea Ballerini and her now ex-husband Morgan Evans decided to call it quits. Their recent divorce was messy, ugly, and not without emotional turmoil.
Since the divorce, Kelsea has released “Rolling Up the Welcome Mat,” a series of songs detailing the entirety of her relationship with Morgan.
Morgan had also published a song called “Over For You,” which directly contradicted her side of the story. So as you can see, country music fans are in a frenzy over the ensuing drama.
While celebrity breakups are mainly a source of gossip and entertainment for many people, there is still a lot we can learn from them.
In an interview on the Call Her Daddy podcast, Kelsea spilled all the specifics about what went down between her and Morgan Evans. Here’s everything we learned from Kelsea’s split to avoid making the same mistakes in our own relationships.
Always Listen To Your Gut
There have probably been countless times when you’ve ignored what your intuition tells you because you don’t want to face the music.
But your instincts are usually right, and no matter how much you might try to bury your feelings, they will always emerge again.
Your gut signals to you when something is not quite right about a relationship. So learn to listen to your gut because that’s how you can stay true to yourself.
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Learn To Love Yourself Before Entering A Relationship
Kelsea Ballerini met her ex when she was 22-years-old, and they got married a year and a half later. When you’re young, you think you know everything about love. And especially with young love, it’s easy to get caught up in the spur of the moment.
So when Kelsea got married, all she wanted to do was please her husband and be whoever he wanted her to be. Somewhere down the line, she became an image of someone else, losing herself in the process.
It’s vital to love yourself before entering a relationship because you can understand yourself much better. Once you learn to love yourself, you can recognize your value and be able to stand strong in your beliefs.
You Can’t Change Someone
It might be hard to accept, but you can’t change someone. For someone to truly change, they have to want to do it themselves. So when you’re in a relationship with someone whose values are very different from yours, it can feel like you’re always at odds with your partner.
If you’re constantly clashing whenever you have a discussion together and can never come to a compromise, it’s probably best to go your separate ways. Sometimes, people are just on different paths, and your roads aren’t converging at this time.
Turn To Your Girls For Support
Breaking up is really hard because the person you may have once considered your best friend is no longer by your side. But that’s when you turn to another support system.
The role of friends during a breakup can’t be downplayed. They are there for you in both times of crisis and celebration.
So this is a reminder not to let your friendships die when you’re in a relationship because when things go south, your girls will be the ones to help pick you back up.
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