Katharina Buczek
I know, I know– this sounds so basic! But you would be surprised how many people get caught up in the details and forget to say these three words. So, try your hardest not to forget this little phrase– because while it may be short, it holds massive meaning.
Next, share how you plan to stick by your partner’s side through thick and thin. Anyone who claims that their relationship has never had any challenges is definitely lying. That’s why you shouldn’t refrain from addressing the inevitable.
Instead, communicate your intentions to tackle any obstacles with your partner as one unified pair.
Vows are also the perfect time to share some personal stories. Now, these can be as sentimental or humorous as you like. Either way, the anecdotes will add a level of authenticity and “realness” that just cannot be achieved with pre-written vows.
So, touch on what makes your partner tick and give a sneak peek into your own personal relationship. This will not only make your vows much more special but will also make them much more interesting for your wedding guests to hear.
Finally, don’t forget to make legitimate promises! At the end of the day, “vows” are supposed to be promises that each partner makes to their soon-to-be spouse. No, this doesn’t mean you have to write extremely cheesy or heavy vows.
You also probably won’t be able to fit in every single promise you intend to keep throughout your marriage.
But you should still incorporate a mix of heartfelt and funny intentions. For instance, you could promise to be their shoulder to lean on in times of need while also promising that you will handle all of the bug killings in your home. Whatever floats your boat!
Tips For Wedding Vow Success
Now that you have a general outline of points to touch on during your vows, you have to start the hard part– actually writing them. Thankfully, we have a few great tips for mitigating stress and ensuring wedding vow success.
Primarily, do not procrastinate! The idea of writing and delivering your own vows will only become more daunting the longer you wait. So, make a plan to have your vows completed at least three weeks before your big day.
