She’s Refusing To Invite Her Sister To Her Wedding Because Her Sister Won’t Apologize For Severely Bullying Her Fiancé In High School And College
This 27-year-old woman has a 24-year-old sister named Kayley, who is reportedly an entitled, self-centered bully. And according to her, Kayley’s behavior is a product of their parents.
Growing up, if her sister ever got a bad grade, her parents would threaten to get Kayley’s teachers fired.
So, any of her sister’s bad behavior would just get swept under the rug at school since no one wanted to deal with her parents.
And at home, there were reportedly no boundaries set for Kayley, either. So, she has been forced to limit her communication with both her sister and her parents since she believes their enablement of Kayley’s behavior has only gotten worse.
In August, though, she and her 25-year-old fiancé named Joseph will be getting married. But unfortunately, more drama involving her sister has been threatening to ruin their big day.
Back when she first started dating Joseph, she learned that her sister Kayley had actually severely bullied him while he was in high school. Plus, even after her fiancé went to college, her sister continued cyberbullying him.
After finding that out, both she and Joseph tried to confront Kayley about what had happened. But, her sister has never apologized and refuses to acknowledge that the bullying ever happened.
Instead, Kayley would say things like, “Well, even if I did do that, he should get over it,” or “That was all the way back during the pandemic; he should have learned to take a joke by now.”
Earlier this year, though, one of Kayley’s friends unexpectedly passed away. According to her, Kayley used to hang out with that friend every single day but lost touch after high school. So, the loss reportedly affected Kayley.
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“And now, Kayley and my parents are insisting that she’s had a change of heart because her friend’s death made Kayley realize that you never know how much time you have left with people,” she explained.
Due to this, her sister now wants to be more involved in her life. Despite the supposed “change of heart,” though, Kayley has still refused to apologize for any of the bullyings.
She also detailed how in the past, her sister never showed any interest in being at her wedding. But, ever since the friend’s death, Kayley has been expressing her wish to both attend her wedding and have a “place of honor” role– such as being a bridesmaid.
Quite frankly, though, she told her sister that she was not welcome at her nuptials.
“Her refusal to apologize or admit wrongdoing shows up that she isn’t sincere about wanting to be a better sister and overall person towards us,” she pointed out.
“This is supposed to be one of the biggest and happiest days of my and Joseph’s lives, and we aren’t saving any seats for a bully.”
Ever since she made that decision, though, her parents have continued pushing Kayley’s “change of heart” claims on her. In fact, they are even urging her to have more sympathy for her sister in the wake of the loss.
Numerous family members have taken her parents’ side, too, and are now threatening not to attend her wedding unless she invites Kayley.
Her largest concern about this, though, has to do with her paternal grandparents. Apparently, they have always been there for both her and Joseph, and they really want to attend the ceremony.
But, her grandparents rely on her aunt due to their health issues, and they would need her aunt to transport them to the wedding. So, her grandparents are afraid to go against her aunt and risk losing her support.
That’s why, even though all of her friends agree that she shouldn’t be obligated to invite Kayley, they think she still should for the sake of her grandparents.
“Because they know how much my grandparents want to come, and inviting Kayley would be the unfortunate but necessary means to make sure they can be there,” she said.
So now, she’s been left wondering whether withholding a wedding invitation from her sister would make her a real jerk.
Would you want someone who bullied your fiancé at your wedding? Should she allow other people’s opinions to influence her decision? How could she make sure her grandparents could still be at the wedding without relying on her aunt? What would you do in this situation?
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