Katharina Buczek
Once she got home, she received a bunch of long text messages from her sister detailing how sorry she was for “ruining” the bachelorette party.
Within those messages, her sister also claimed to want to go to couples therapy with her husband and promised she would tell him everything.
But honestly, she didn’t provide a massive response in terms of the cheating. Instead, she just acknowledged her sister’s apology and reiterated how she would be there for her sister if she could help in any way.
Rather than moving on from the topic, though, her sister just kept going. In the following messages, however, her sister asked her not to speak about the cheating with anyone– including her own fiancé.
Now, she had already filled her fiancé in on the situation before her sister ever reached out. So, he was aware, but her sister claimed that she would “eventually” tell her own husband about the infidelity.
However, it has now been a few weeks since her bachelorette party, and her sister has not told her husband about the cheating.
And to make matters worse, she found out just a few days ago that her sister and brother-in-law are now trying to have a baby.
So, she has been fighting an internal battle because she really does not think they should start having kids together until their relationship problems are squared away.
She also admitted how she has always really liked her brother-in-law. She thinks he is a decent guy who genuinely cares and loves her sister.
“And I would hate to see him get hurt because she decided to keep him in the dark. As they say, all secrets come out eventually,” she said.
Still, she is seriously torn about what to do. On the one hand, she knows it’s not really her place to tell her brother-in-law about the cheating and thinks the information should really come from her sister.
