His Fiancée’s Sister Said He Wasn’t Invited To Her Wedding Because She Wasn’t Giving Plus Ones, But Then He Found Out That She Lied And Included Everyone Except Him
This 27-year-old man and his 28-year-old fiancée have been with one another for about a year, and they got engaged after 6 months of dating.
He and his fiancée are going to be getting married next fall, and they are already creating their guest list.
His fiancée has a huge family, whereas he is an only child, and he feels that he’s ended up becoming quite close to his fiancée’s family.
His fiancée has a sister that he really feels close to, and he and his fiancée frequently go to her house to play board games and hang out.
His fiancée’s sister is now pregnant, and she’s engaged too. Not that long ago, his fiancée mentioned her sister wanted to get married ASAP because she didn’t want their family to be disappointed, which would happen if she welcomed the baby before tying the knot.
“I’ve done a lot for her sister and soon-to-be husband,” he explained. “I planned a birthday party for his son-from-another-marriage, I’ve given her rides, always brought small gifts when I would visit.”
“I’ve gone as far as to stop everything I was doing to help her during a health scare while she was pregnant. I really felt like a part of the family. Fast forward. In a text to my fiancée upon announcing her wedding, her sister made it a point to say, “It’s a small wedding, no plus ones. OP can come to the dinner afterward.”
“All fine by me. I honestly don’t really mind, as ceremonies can be dull, and I understood why she would only want to have immediate family at her small wedding.”
The morning of the wedding arrived, and he was supposed to help his fiancée get ready before taking her to her sister’s house for the wedding.
Ulia Koltyrina – stock.adobe.com – illustrative purposes only, not the actual person
He was not only giving his fiancée a ride there; he also was giving his fiancée’s sister and her sister’s soon-to-be husband a lift over to the venue.
From there, the plan was that he would bring all 3 of them to the dinner as well. As he was getting ready to leave, his fiancée said he could just drop her off at her sister’s house, and she would figure out a different way to get to the venue and dinner. That struck him as strange, but he just went along with it and drove his fiancée to her sister’s house.
As his fiancée was exiting the car, he said he would like to pop in and congratulate her sister and her sister’s soon-to-be husband. His fiancée paused and said she needed to send her sister a text first to ensure that would be alright.
“I was dressed in plainclothes and was hesitantly invited to come inside,” he said. “We walked up to the house.”
“Inside was a party of her siblings and their friends and significant others all dressed up. They all looked at me and didn’t say much. I saw another one of her sisters, and her new boyfriend was in a suit. Everyone was invited. The “no plus 1s” only applied to me.”
“I immediately left and, in a text, told my fiancée they were off the guest list for our wedding. My fiancée is upset at that because her sister is her close friend. She said maybe I did something to upset them, which is why I wasn’t invited, but I’ve been nothing but kind and caring to her entire family. I’ve spent hundreds of dollars and gone above and beyond for everyone. Now we are fighting over this.”
Do you agree that he should stand firm on excluding his fiancée’s sister from his wedding since he was excluded from her wedding?
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