She Dated A Guy Who Displayed One Red Flag After Another, And She’s Sharing How She Eventually Found Out He Had Killed Someone

Olena Bloshchynska- Stock.Adobe.com, illustrative purposes only, not the actual people
Olena Bloshchynska- Stock.Adobe.com, illustrative purposes only, not the actual people

It can’t be denied that there is an abundance of terrible dating stories out there. If you have one of your own, hopefully, you can find comfort in the fact that your bad date never took another person’s life.

TikToker Sydney (@sydneykidneybean) has a dating horror story about a guy who displayed one red flag after another, and she’s sharing how she eventually found out he had killed someone.

When Sydney was around twenty-years-old, she dated a guy in his early thirties. One characteristic about him that irked her was his materialism.

All he talked about was the new, expensive item he had just bought or was planning on buying. But Sydney decided to overlook this flaw of his. Little did she know that it was far from his worst trait.

One day, they were hanging out together. He was driving, and an elderly person had cut him off on the road. He immediately became irate and complained about how older people shouldn’t be driving.

Sydney asked him why he was so mad, and he told her that a couple of years ago, an elderly couple had run into him on the road.

As a result of the accident, the driver passed away, and they tried to pin the death on him. The accusation ruined his life and drained him of his money.

“I was like, wow, that is really rough, but look at you now; you’ve rebuilt yourself. He’s now a very wealthy, successful person,” said Sydney.

About a week later, something happened that stood out to her as a red flag. So they were watching a supernatural movie together, and Sydney is a big believer in the paranormal.

Olena Bloshchynska- Stock.Adobe.com, illustrative purposes only, not the actual people

Suddenly, the fire alarm started going off. An uncomfortable feeling came over Sydney, and she fought the urge to leave. The alarm also wouldn’t stop ringing, so the guy was forced to wrap it in a blanket and shove it in the closet.

Despite all the warning signs, Sydney continued hanging out with this man. Eventually, they planned to take a trip together.

However, the night before the trip, she didn’t hear from him. She attempted to contact him, but he was unreachable. Finally, he informed her that his grandmother had just died.

Sydney believed him at first. But after another hour or two of no contact from him, she suspected he was lying.

So she decided to look this man up online, and what she found shocked her to her very core. When she searched his name, she found the information from the crash he had described.

However, his version of the story differed significantly from the news article she read.

“The article that I find reads ‘man on suspended license with multiple warrants for traffic violations runs red light and collides with another vehicle, killing the driver,'” Sydney revealed.

The driver was a 95-year-old man whose wife had been in the passenger seat. Sydney did not hear from the guy again until about a year later.

After her discovery, Sydney was livid. She went to the store and bought a decoration for a gravestone and a sympathy card expressing condolences for the loss of a grandmother.

She wrote an insult in the card, sealed it with her chewing gum, and placed it in his parking spot at his apartment building.

After he ghosted her, she tried calling him, but her number was blocked. When her number wouldn’t go through, she dialed “*67,” which hides your own number from the recipient of the call and shows up as an anonymous caller.

She repeated this process every four months to see if she could get some answers. One day, she received a text message from him that contained a weak apology.

She did not engage with him, and to this day, he continues to periodically text her about how much he misses her.

https://www.tiktok.com/@sydneykidneybean/video/7229464803922709803

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