His Girlfriend Asked Him To Be Her Date For A Wedding, But Then She Went Behind His Back And Asked Another Guy To Come With Her Instead

Iona - stock.adobe.com - illustrative purposes only, not the actual person
Iona - stock.adobe.com - illustrative purposes only, not the actual person

This 23-year-old guy has a girlfriend the same age as him, and they have only been together for about 7 months officially.

Prior to dating, they have known one another for a couple of years. His girlfriend is incredibly kind, and he feels as if she’s the first girl that he can really trust after being hurt some time ago.

Pretty recently, his girlfriend asked him to be her date for a wedding, and he mentioned that he might not be in town for that day.

He then said he would need 2 or 3 days max to figure out his plans and get back to her with a concrete answer.

The wedding will be happening later this July, and his girlfriend said that he could take until the middle of this month to let her know if he could go with her.

A couple of evenings after they had this conversation, he realized that a guy by the name of Kyle was blowing her phone up.

He had never once heard his girlfriend mention Kyle, but he wasn’t concerned because he truly trusts his girlfriend.

Yesterday night, he and his girlfriend were fast asleep, but a call from his girlfriend’s phone woke him up at 1:30 in the morning. It was Kyle calling her.

“My girlfriend stays up late most nights, so I automatically think he was calling her, not knowing she was sleeping with me,” he explained.

Iona – stock.adobe.com – illustrative purposes only, not the actual person

“Then he sent a couple of texts to her, and when the phone lit up, I peeped at the message that said, “My suit goes perfectly with your dress for the wedding.”

“I felt [awful], and I did open the message and saw a conversation of them being friendly/minor flirting, and then there was the message that she sent him at the end of May asking him to be her date.”

He admits that it wasn’t right for him to look through his girlfriend’s messages like that, but he’s so upset about her going behind his back to ask another guy he’s never heard of to be her date to the wedding.

How do you think he should bring this up to his girlfriend?

You can read the original post on Reddit here.

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