She Went On An 8 Hour Date With A Guy And He Treated Her Like They Were Engaged The Whole Time, And Then He Planned 7 More Dates For Them To Go On
Dating apps can definitely be hit or miss when it comes to connecting with someone, and sometimes, one person is way more into the date than the other.
TikTok creator Samantha (@suppacoolsam) shares a dating experience that has made her swear off a dating app for good!
Samantha is stuck in her college town this summer, taking classes. All of her friends are abroad for the next few months, and Samantha is starting to get really bored without them. So for some entertainment and perhaps some company, she decided to download Tinder.
One of the guys that she matches with seems to be responding sweetly to her. Out of boredom, she agrees to a FaceTime call with him. During this call, she finds out that he has already deleted the Tinder app because he is feeling so confident about her and their potential connection together.
A red flag popped up in Samanta’s mind, but his planned date of food and building Lego flowers sounded sweet, so she agreed to it.
Little did she know, this seemingly simple plan ended up being an all-day event, ending around 8 hours after he picked her up at 4 p.m.
He looked a little different from his pictures, but not enough to suspect any serious catfishing or anything like that. Samantha could also tell that he had lied about his height, which, if you know the dating app sense, is not too uncommon for guys to do.
Still, these things were just the start of the continued red flags for this guy.
“He treated me like we were engaged or something. Like bro, this is the first time I ever met you, and I was being treated like I’m your future wife,” retells Samantha.
Piman Khrutmuang – stock.adobe.com – illustrative purposes only
After shopping at the mall for a while, Samantha’s date takes her to his place of work to meet all of his coworkers– aka all of his friends. During all of these introductions, Samantha sort of felt like she was being shown off like a trophy.
“At this point, he’d already done some other weird stuff where I had decided that I’m like probably not going to end up going on a second date with this guy. And I just feel bad because he’s showing me to all his friends,” Samantha says.
It’s 10 p.m., and this guy drives Samantha and himself to the middle of nowhere. Now Samantha starts to worry and begins making up excuses for needing to get back home. All she feels is uncomfortable and wants to leave this date ASAP.
“At this point, I’m freaking out,” she recalls, “I have like no reception, and I’m like, ‘This was a horrible idea. I have too much trust in humanity.'”
Thankfully, everything ended up fine, and Samantha returned home safely at the end of the night. However, she realizes that clearly, this guy has super strong feelings for her and already thinks that they are boyfriend and girlfriend.
Obviously, Samantha does not feel the same way. The way this guy was acting around her was a bit obsessive and too much all at once. He has already planned out their next 7 dates, and his mom knows about her!
Unsurprisingly, this guy keeps texting Samantha, asking when they are going to see each other next. She does not know what to do! What advice would you give her after that first date experience?
“The worst part of that date is we never made the Lego flowers!” exclaims Samantha.
https://www.tiktok.com/@suppacoolsam/video/7237952678020566315?_r=1&_t=8ckfq8cWlEh
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