She’s In Love With Her Male Coworker, But He’s In Love With Another Female Coworker Who Is Already Engaged
This 29-year-old woman started a new job about one year ago. And over the past five months, she has fallen head over heels for one of her male coworkers, who is 27.
At first, she and the guy hit it off after having some playful conversations– which led her to develop a serious crush.
But then, everything took a turn after she noticed how close her male coworker was with another female coworker, who also happened to be engaged.
Apparently, the pair were good friends before she started working there. And everyone knows her female coworker’s fiancé.
Yet, the two of them have been seriously touchy-feely, and it has really started to upset her.
Recently, they all went away for a work trip, and she could not help but become upset after seeing her two coworkers get so close to each other. Quite frankly, she thought it was just too much.
That’s why she decided to tell her male coworker that she had feelings for him. But, he was clear that he was not looking for a relationship and claimed he would help her out– because “the heart wants what it wants.”
So, she leaned on him for support as she was navigating some other rough situations in her personal life. Ever since then, though, she and the guy have kept getting into fights, and their relationship has turned pretty hot and cold.
She has since told her female coworker that she likes the guy, too. She also admitted to seeing the two of them getting really close and physical in front of her.
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“It’s devastating, especially knowing that she is engaged and I don’t understand the situation,” she said.
“We often hang out with her and her fiancé, too, and they seem so in love.”
Nonetheless, her female coworker keeps saying things about their male coworker and claiming that he was just too late since the engagement had already happened.
Plus, her male coworker also talks about the woman, believes they are exactly alike, and claims he has never felt so comfortable with anyone else.
So, it has been seriously upsetting for her– especially since both coworkers know about her crush.
“And they are now very affectionate to each other. He even sent her to the hospital when she was sick at work once, goes on drives with her during work, and they wake each other up and keep visiting each other during work,” she added.
Yet, her male coworker also keeps talking to her on the side. He gets close to her, and they have even gotten physical. But then, he pulls away. And this whiplash has been killing her.
She knows that the situation is not good, but she just can’t seem to let go of her crush. She has even started seeing a psychiatrist because she is having trouble dealing with all of her bottled-up emotions.
Still, in the back of her mind, she just keeps hoping that, if she sticks around, her male coworker will eventually like her back– especially because their other coworker will finally be tying the knot soon.
“But I also have anxiety that my coworker might leave her fiancé and be with the guy I like,” she vented.
That’s why she seriously has no clue what to do anymore. The situation has consumed all of her energy, and she cannot even manage to go out with any other guys without thinking about her coworker.
So, she’s been left wondering how to deal with this situation and finally get over her coworker.
Do you think there is any way this situation could have a positive outcome? Should she move on from this guy before she gets any more hurt? What would you do?
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