He Just Found Out His Fiancée Has Been Cheating On Him, And He Isn’t Sure If He Should Give Her A Second Chance
This 30-year-old man has been with his fiancée, who is also 30, for 10 years now. And in just a few months, they were going to tie the knot and even planned to try for a baby afterward.
So, he claimed that they were both truly happy in their relationship, got along great, and their family loved each other.
That’s why the fact that his fiancée cheated on him has been so confusing.
“I want to get this point across because, usually, when someone cheats, there is something we can pinpoint as the explanation of why it happened,” he said.
“But this was literally the happiest we had ever been.”
The news of his fiancée’s infidelity came out after they took a trip to another country just last week. While abroad, he wound up seeing a message in which his fiancée sent unclothed photos to a different guy.
And he was not even able to read the rest of the texts after seeing the photos. So, he just closed out the app as his world was turned upside down.
Then, once he was able to get his bearings, he decided to confront his fiancée. At that point, she tried to explain how the guy was just a man from her past who had previously rejected her.
But, more recently, the guy added his fiancée online again and even started showing interest.
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So, his fiancée claimed to feel “empowered” after that and decided to “get revenge” on the guy– whatever that meant.
He also found out that the other guy lives in a different country, which means it is completely impossible for his fiancée to meet up with him. And for some reason, he feels like that makes everything worse.
“I can’t get over this. I feel empty inside, and I feel like my life ended,” he revealed.
“She deleted the guy from the app and is begging me to give her another chance, but I don’t know if I can.”
Since discovering the text messages, he has been staying at his parent’s house and has only been talking with his fiancée’s dad.
At the moment, he is not even able to think about talking to his fiancée anymore.
However, according to her father, she has been crying non-stop all week. She has also barely slept or eaten and apparently looks genuinely sorry.
“But how can I trust her enough to marry her, have kids with her, and continue building a life when she cheats on me during the happiest time of our life?” he vented.
“I still love her deeply, but I don’t know how to move on from this or if I can move on from this.”
Ever since speaking with friends, though, they have encouraged him to give her a second chance since they have already worked to build a life together.
Still, since he cannot even look at his fiancée right now, he’s been left wondering what he should do.
Can you imagine how he must feel? Why do you think his fiancée would risk their relationship for a guy who does not even live in their country? Do you believe they can move forward from this or not?
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