Her Boyfriend Keeps Going On Vacations With A Group Of Girls And Excluding Her, But He Thinks She’s Just Acting “Spoiled” By Being Uncomfortable
This 28-year-old woman has been with her boyfriend, who is 33, for four years. And her boyfriend’s father is extremely wealthy– which, in turn, makes her boyfriend’s entire family very privileged and financially well-off.
Her boyfriend’s father also holds patriarchal views of the world, causing her boyfriend– the only son in his family– to be given “free range” of his dad’s finances.
At the same time, her boyfriend’s mother and his seven younger sisters were entirely excluded from the funds.
“Surprisingly, he’s well aware of this dynamic and doesn’t care because ‘it worked well’ for his family,” she revealed.
Still, she admitted to seeing a lot of potential in her boyfriend. She also knows that, deep down, he is a great person who has the ability to do a lot of good.
Regardless, she believes that her boyfriend has been brainwashed by the toxic views held by his father. And those ingrained perspectives are not easy to wash away.
Following the death of her boyfriend’s father just last year, however, she noticed that her boyfriend had actually made a lot of progress. To her, that was also another reason why she wanted to stay with him.
“Though, I must admit, all of this motivation is on the verge of being shattered recently,” she said.
Due to her boyfriend’s wealth, he tends to get a ton of attention from other women– especially because he likes to flash his status.
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And more recently, he has become friends with a group of four women who are 27, 24, 22, and 21-years-old.
Now, her boyfriend swears that these women are just friends. He also claims that, since he grew up surrounded by seven sisters, he tends to “naturally gravitate” toward other women as friends.
“If he didn’t have seven sisters, I wouldn’t have believed him to begin with,” she explained.
“But since he grew up with a total of eight women in his house, I did.”
Well, last year, she and her boyfriend went on a vacation with all of the girls. And she was understandably very uncomfortable the whole time.
Rather than being understanding, her boyfriend just accused her of “ruining the mood.” Then, he even claimed that he would not take the other girls on vacations with her in the future. And she thought that was great, assuming it would just be her and her boyfriend moving forward.
Yet, what her boyfriend really meant was that he was going to start going on vacations with the girls and excluding her from being there!
Her boyfriend promised that he would “make it up to her” and take her places that she really wanted to visit, just the two of them.
He also claimed that she just needed to have trust in his character while he went on trips with his “friends.”
Anyway, her boyfriend and the group of girls all got back from their latest vacation this past Sunday. And honestly, she could not handle it anymore.
So, she wound up crying and telling her boyfriend that the vacations make her seriously anxious. She also opened up about not feeling comfortable with them occurring.
But her boyfriend just got upset with her, accused her of acting “spoiled,” and claimed that he was disappointed in her for not trusting him!
And since that conversation, her boyfriend has also refused to talk to her. On top of that, he has even started telling his “friends”– the other women– about their conversation.
“Because two of them have texted me, calling me names and telling me how much of a ‘leech’ I am,” she vented.
So now, she feels like the situation is getting seriously out of hand, and she is not sure how to handle it.
How would you feel if your boyfriend started going on vacation with a group of girls and excluding you? Do you think that’s appropriate? How would you feel in her shoes? Do you think she should stay with her boyfriend after this?
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