Her Fiancé Dumped Her In A Text Message And Said He’s Still In Love With His Ex
This 23-year-old girl was engaged to a 19-year-old guy, but he just dumped her in a text message and said that he’s still in love with his ex and never really got over this girl.
There were no signs that her fiancé didn’t want to spend the rest of his life with her, and their relationship was excellent.
They were open and honest with one another, and the day before he dumped her, he said he was super happy to be engaged to her.
He also said that she was a great partner for him, and most likely his soulmate.
Now, she also has every password to his email and other apps on his phone, and she never noticed him messaging his ex or stepping out on her.
“I feel so heartbroken,” she explained. “And as someone with an anxious attachment style and abandonment issues and depression, this has opened so many wounds that I had worked on healing for so long alone and in therapy.”
“Of course, I’m scanning the entire relationship for a sign and majorly comparing myself to his ex and feeling super ugly and unlovable, etc. I’ve probably never hated myself more than I do right now.”
“The only red flag was that he and his ex share a room in a house, where another couple lives, and my fiancé always said it was because he didn’t have to money to move out, and knowing his finances this was very true. And if he was at his home, I would be on FaceTime a lot of the day with him anyway.”
His ex is not a good person, and it breaks her knowing he walked out and left her for such a toxic human being.
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Looking back, she can honestly say that she was a good fiancée to him and she had even asked when they first began dating if she was just a rebound for his ex.
He promised her she wasn’t just a rebound to him, and he said he truly was ready to be in a relationship.
Then, when he proposed to her, she knew he had to be telling the truth about being ready for commitment, as that’s a big kind of commitment.
“I just don’t know how to move on and get over probably being the other woman the entire time,” she said.
“Our lives are so intermingled with mutual friends and pets and I’m grieving the life I had and the one I planned. I have the itch to just try to get him to text me or talk to me and to stalk his socials trying to figure out what’s going on, and I’m afraid I’ll break and drunk text him something stupid.”
“I’m basically just laying in bed all day. Not eating because I’m so nauseous and just stuck in my head. I ran out of tears a while ago. I have no motivation to get up and do anything. I know I should book a therapist but in the meantime, how do I survive? How do I live with this? How do I get out of my head with the comparisons and what if? How do I remain in no contact when all I want is him?”
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